These two items are pretty unrelated but I’m gonna throw them into the same post because I AM THE BOSS AROUND HERE.
A no-bed rotting trial
Ok, so, you guys know I typically set my morning alarm early enough to allow for some time in bed spent rotting on my phone. I do things like play my New York Times word games, check my social media, scan the headlines, read my email, and so on.

If I just did a quick run through these things, I think this would be relatively harmless.
But you know how it is when you are comfy in your bed with your phone…it’s easy to just KEEP ON bed-rotting far longer than you mean to.
And this is especially true on days without a “Get up!” deadline, such as days when you don’t have to go to work.

Sooo, I am in the midst of a self-imposed two-week trial of Not Rotting in Bed When I Wake Up, just to see if it makes a big difference in how my days go.
Why?
Well, mornings are honestly when I’m at my best. So I don’t want to spend that time of day rotting on my phone! I can do that later in the day when I am already rather spent.
Also relevant: I started actually working on the floor as a nurse this week.

I have to be ready to get report from the night nurse at 7 am, and since I am new and slow, it is recommended to get to work a half hour early to read through patient charts and get report paperwork ready.
Sooo, if I want to do that without having to get up even earlier, I need to skip my morning bed-rotting.
After my two-week trial is up, I’ll let you know how it went and what I have concluded.
A fun-money allowance
I had considered this idea in the past but never followed through. So I’m announcing it publicly!

Sometimes, we frugal-at-heart people have a hard time actually spending our money.
Of course, I think saving money is good. (Duh!)
But there are also joy-inducing ways to spend money, and it’s a bit of a shame to live life without experiencing that sometimes.
Of course, I recognize that not everyone is in a position to budget for fun-money spending. But there are definitely cases where we frugal people do have some wiggle room and still fail to take advantage of it.
I now have my nurse pay, which means I’m in the happy position of having wiggle room.

So, I’m going to give myself a little fun money allowance and then let you all know how I spend it each month!
I was thinking of $50/month to start with, and I can see how that goes.
Or hmmm, maybe $80/month would be good, because that basically gives me $20/week to play with.

Lindsay Hamilton
Monday 8th of September 2025
I hope you share (similar to grocery) what you spend your fun money on! I think it's encouraging to those when they get to that point to see it's really spending without guilt!
Mary
Thursday 4th of September 2025
Hi! I like the idea of a percentage of income as fun money or money to be spent on current wants. I try to keep my needs and my savings to a certain percentage also. We are not promised tomorrow so it's good to buy the ice cream, or get a fun new pen, or a silly t shirt, or whatever just because.
I'm also a nurse, and if I work multiple shifts in a row or the days were particularly tough, I love a good bed rot. I think of it like having a "work hangover" and I just let myself recover - especially in my first day off. I try not to do it all the time, but there are days when that is the best choice.
Also, being a new nurse is a lot of learning and decision making - especially for the first year. You may be more mentally, emotionally, and/or physically fatigued that you'd expect. Be gentle with yourself - it does get better!
Lauren
Thursday 4th of September 2025
I gave up bed rotting a couple months ago and it's been huge for my mental health! It took me about three or four weeks to get used to it, though, so don't give up if it doesn't take right away!
AZ Lynn
Thursday 4th of September 2025
My fun money (entertainment) budget is 100 a month. I consider it vitally important. I live alone, no family nearby, and am starting over building community. Hope you enjoy yours as much as I enjoy mine.
I think the no bed rotting will vastly improve your morning and day. I on the other hand need that time because I only have internet between about 9pm and 6-7am. I kinda like to sleep during those hours. I have nothing positive to say about Mint Mobile. Neither do any of the other people who live in my area who also paid for a year in advance for lousy service. In the middle of a mid-size city in a T Mobile dead zone. grumble, grumble
Kim
Wednesday 3rd of September 2025
I am all for the fun money allowance! You worked your butt off to become an RN and I say spend some of that nurse money!! I know I did when I got my RN! And letโs face it youโve been through a lot the past few years and deserve to pamper yourself and put yourself first.
Kristen
Thursday 4th of September 2025
These are all very fair points. :)