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Monday Q&A | Soap Slivers, Thawing Meat, and Questionable Donations

Every Monday, I answer a few of the questions that my readers send me. If you have a question you’d like me to answer in a future Q&A post, just leave me a comment here or email me (thefrugalgirl [at] gmail [dot] com) and put Q&A in the subject line. I look forward to hearing from you!

How can we use every little piece of a soap bar?


I don’t use a lot of bar soap, but when I did, I used to just push the last bit onto the new bar of soap. I did this even when I was a teenager living at home, and I wasn’t paying for the soap. I just don’t like to waste things!

I am wondering how you defrost meat. Between buying a section of a cow and going to the grocery store only once every two weeks, I would imagine you have some experience with storing meat in the freezer. I love to stock up on meat when I see a good deal, but I feel like it takes forever for meat to defrost once I pop it in my fridge (2 days+), and I get squeamish about defrosting meat in the microwave.


It does require some thinking ahead, that’s for sure!

brinerating chicken in a Pyrex dish.

If I’m organized enough, I get my meat out and defrost it in the fridge. But if I’m in a hurry, I thaw it at room temperature on a metal baking sheet (this makes meat thaw faster for some reason.)

I know food safety experts don’t recommend that you defrost meat this way, but I’m careful not to let the meat get warm, and I cook it to a safe temperature anyway.

So, (disclaimer ahead) I can’t officially recommend that you thaw meat at room temperature, but it is what I personally do sometimes.

Very occasionally, if I am desperate, I will use the defrost setting on my microwave. I really don’t like to do that, though, as the edges of the meat sometimes start to cook before the middle is thawed.

I’m the mom who previously wrote in about expecting triplets. Now that we are a family of eight, I am inspired to streamline and declutter even more. We have large collections of things like towels, plastic ware, toys (just to name a few). As I cull them down to the most precious and most useful to keep, I’m left with three major piles: keepers, donations and stuff not quite worth donating but still should stay out of a landfill. Things like towels with visible wear, toys that are missing minor pieces (decals, little accessories), less than sturdy but still usable storage bowls, clearly well-loved but still cute holiday dishes, obscure and sometimes not very good books, oddball art supplies. What are your thoughts about donating less than perfect stuff?


I try to be careful about that, since thrift stores will often throw away things that they can’t sell. And I really don’t want my stuff to just hit the landfill if it’s avoidable.

So, Freecycle is where I try to get rid of things like this. Someone might not buy your less-than-fabulous items at a thrift store, but they might want them for the wonderful price of $0. I am continually surprised at what I can give away on Freecycle, so give it a shot!

(here’s how Freecycle works)

I also try to find ways to repurpose old items if possible. I wrote an ebook about how I repurpose clothing (though at this stage of your life, probably only the simplest ideas in the book would be manageable for you!), but I also look for alternative uses for other items.

For example, an old plastic file cabinet because our Easter egg storage bin, and we use a worn teflon dutch oven from Mr. FG’s bachelor days as a container for our Magnetix toys.

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Christine M

Sunday 1st of July 2012

Another great way to get rid of used by still good stuff -- use Facebook. Someone in my local area started a closed group on FB called Shop the House. You could keep it as small as you would like, but our group has grown to over 1000 members in a very short amount of time! If a member has items they are looking to sell, they create an album with their name and city as the title. When the photos are posted (with description and price) the first person to comment on it gets first dibs. The seller and buyer arrange pick-up through private messaging for safety purposes. It has been a wonderful way to clean out my house and get some get deals on things I've been looking for too! It's like a garage sale online -- it's great!


Thursday 28th of June 2012

I have put the weirdest things up on freecycle and 99% of it has found a home very quickly. The biggest thing was a broken vacuum cleaner that I didn't have the time to try and fix (our house was on the market and I needed a working one IMMEDIATELY). I listed that it was broken and could probably be fixed and a guy came and picked it up the same day. I think he had some sort of a business fixing and reselling items because he used to reply to pretty much anything I posted saying he'd take it. It was fine with me---I applauded his ingenuity and was glad to have it gone. As long as you are very honest about the condition of the item(s), people can decide whether or not to give them a try.


Wednesday 27th of June 2012

I often take old clothes and toys to homeless shelters, women's emergency shelters, or the YWCA. They run on very tight budgets and can always use donations. Just a thought.


Wednesday 27th of June 2012

Our county dump site has different dumpsters for different things and a little building called a "swap shop". It's for stuff like you described or people who don't have enough at one time to donate. You just put your stuff in the building and people can take what they want for free. The only rule is 3 items per person per day. I guess this is to keep 1 person from taking it all and having a yard sale. It's mostly small stuff, but I saw an artificial Christmas tree in there once. You should ask if your county does this or is interesed in doing it. It keeps alot out of the landfill and saves people money!


Monday 25th of June 2012

I like to go over my weekly menu (my menu starts on a Thursday since that is when I usually go grocery shopping) and then I get all of my frozen meats out put them in coldest part of my fridge. That way they are ready and waiting on me all week.

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