Thankful Thursday | a compliment to you guys!
You guys, I was catching up on some podcasts the other day, and one of the episodes was from Laura Vanderkam's Before Breakfast podcast.
She was talking about scrolling more mindfully, and she suggested that reading comments in private or curated communities is a better use of time than, say, the comments section on news sites.
And she said that she enjoys reading the comment section here for that reason!
Soo....her podcast listeners have officially been sent here to read what you all have to say. 😉
This week, I am thankful:
for funny carrots from Hungry Harvest
You know how Hungry Harvest sells produce that is unfit for regular grocery stores?
Well, I got a bunch of funky carrots this week, and these always make me laugh because they look like legs!
I roasted them and they were just as good as straight carrots. 😉
that I got to shadow a float nurse this week
My patient from the day before had been discharged, so I got assigned to tag along with a float nurse (an extra nurse who just walks around the unit and does whatever needs to be done to help out), and I really liked that!
I got to see a lot of different kinds of care being done, which was so educational. And I also got to do some helping out.
that I know how to program an IV pump now
In previous weeks, I've observed this being done, and I've done it supervised, but now I can confidently program a main bag and a piggyback bag (like for an IV antibiotic).
Of course, I'm sure the pumps vary from facility to facility, but I'm happy I have at least learned this one!
Same goes for the vital signs machines at this hospital; I was a little confused by them on the first week, but I'm a pro now. 🙂
that I have a long summer break to look forward to
In seven more weeks, we have a nice three-month break from nursing school. Woohoo! My brain will appreciate the rest.
for all the spring green I'm seeing
The underbrush on my trails is so green now. And I see little buds and blossoms on branches everywhere!
for the appointment system at the DMV
I will never, never stop being grateful for how Covid changed the way this agency operates.
I absolutely, positively love that you can make appointments for things now; it drastically reduces the headache and the wait time. I had an appointment at 12:45 this week, and by 12:46, my name was being called.
(Before Covid, you just had to show up and wait in line and hope for the best. And the best was usually an hours-long wait.)
that I had some time to work on my scuffed table
I'm really going to finish this thing, you guys! I put it on my big spring break to-do list last week, and I did make a little progress.
Chiquita is wondering if it could perhaps be a cat hotel instead of a nightstand. 😉
that I got almost everything done on my spring break list
Out of that whole long list, I left only two things unchecked...and I did make some progress on both of those things (scuffed table included!)
So, yay me! I'm thankful I managed to get so many of those things knocked out.
Chiquita hotel 🙂
@K T, Mice check in. But they don't check out....
@JDinNM, @K T, you are funny. Gave me a laugh for sure. And the first comment too!
@JDinNM, this had me laughing also.
@Leigh, Then my work is done, and I can take the rest of the day off. Thanks!
--For the time and organizational skills to get through this very busy weekend.
--For the money to buy the church flowers for Easter. There have never been fresh flowers on our altar for Easter since we got here five years ago. This year I decided to do that, and while fresh flowers are not cheap, they are worth it to me as a celebration for a very important day.
--That my sister moved to Colorado and can now drive to see us, rather than flying, as she has had to do for the many years she lived more in the east. She's coming for Easter weekend.
--That my 14-year-old son is pretty chill about giving up his room when we have guests. I mean, I don't think it's his favorite to bunk with his six-year-old sister, but he never says anything about it. That's the price he pays for having his own room with the big bed. 🙂
--For my friend, co-worker, and fellow track/football mom. We see each other a lot, so it's nice we like each other. 🙂
--For the daffodils in my garden outside, and the few I cut for the table. They make me so happy.
@kristin @ going country, I have this thing about cutting my flowers. I have to have them in significant abundance outside before I cut them because I can't make up my mind whether I like better seeing them outside or inside.
@Jody S., When I moved into my previous house in 2000, I bought 800 mixed daffodil bulbs and planted them. So many fantastic bouquets, solid flowers for a month, so many kinds--I was so glad I did it. By the time the leaves died back the peonies (planted in the 1920s) were out. I hope whoever lives there now enjoys them.
@kristin @ going country,
It’s lovely that you have bought fresh flowers for your church alter to celebrate this season of love and hope. Happy Easter!
@kristin @ going country, You always go above and beyond in whatever task you take on, at home, at school, and now at your church. I admire you.
I’m thankful for small hometown grocers. My allotment of extrovert is fully expended for the moment and the little stores yesterday made it so I don’t have to go to the big stores today — just get the tax appt out of the way and find some softener salt somewhere.
Also thankful for the accountant. My interest in money is just nil. I would probably blow deadlines every year if he weren’t there to make sure we got our stuff done.
Now, off to subscribe to Laura Vanderkam. Hi, Laura, and I’m so glad you read the nicest place on the internet.
@Karen - It truly is the nicest place on the internet! I love this blog and the comments 🙂
I am thankful for modern medicine. I had my annual Gyn appointment this week and if my Pap smear comes back normal I will have had my last one. My Gyn had a second year medical student with her and I was happy to let her participate in the visit as much as she was allowed. Another benefit of being 65 was the ability to get a Covid booster at this time of year. I stopped into a local pharmacy and was in and out in a few minutes.
I am thankful my nephew was accepted into a med school he wants to attend.
I am thankful the local Honda dealership has reestablished their ability to provide timely service for things like oil changes and tire rotations that they don't make appointments for. It was a nightmare during the "pandemic" but quick yesterday. They even left my vehicle in a covered drop off lane since it was pouring rain.
I am thankful for a delicious kabob lunch with a friend yesterday. I love supporting local restaurants and I am able and willing to pay for high quality meals when I eat out.
I am thankful for the lighter days. The cooler weather is keeping the daffodils from expiring so I'm trying to embrace that.
@K D,
Okay, I'm clueless - but they stop doing pap smears after (or at) age 65, assuming test results are normal, not having any problems that might indicate a need for one, etc?
@Liz B., I listened to a podcast just this week that would suggest just that. If I'm to believe the doctor on the podcast — and to be clear I have not fact-checked it, but I have all the good intentions in the world — if you go in for a full gyn exam after you're on Medicare, Medicare doesn't cover it. This kind of blows my mind ... ?
A bunch of my friends my same age on the fb (people I know in real life, actually) have been grousing about perimenopause and we all seem to be learning stuff from each others' posts. That's where I got the lead on this episode.
If you're interested in the podcast episode, search for the host's name, Mel Robbins, and it's the episode with the goofy clickbait title about belly fat. And the reason the title looks like clickbait is because she's making fun of actual clickbait, I think, because belly fat (visceral fat, around organs) is one effect of loss of estrogen.
Thankful for calm places of the internet such as your blog! I rarely comment but have read for years. Our lives have had many parallels, including the fact that I just went back to school (for my M.S. in Human Nutrition and Functional Medicine) this semester at 50. Anyway, thank you for taking the time to post. Fellow hiker here.
One of your carrots looks like it is dancing. 🙂
This week, I am thankful:
- that I was approved to work from home. The HVAC at work is out, and it was 56 degrees in there yesterday. Too cold for me to sit and concentrate.
- that I get to go by after work and help DD with the baby. She likes having some time off of mommy duty and I love getting baby snuggles.
- for allergy medicine. I love all the beauty of spring, but it kicks my allergies into overdrive.
- that we will be able to get together with our kids for Easter dinner. Likely I will cook at my house then transport it to DD's house, so they don't have to get out with the baby.
- for being able to take off from work to go look at a house that is for sale. We're looking to move to someplace that has fewer steps and has a larger yard. The house we looked at house a huge yard for our area, over 1.5 acres, but also has a large price tag. We have a lot to think about.
@Beverly, I thought it was about to play kickball!
@Beverly, you see a dancing carrot. @Rose, you see a kickball-playing carrot. I see...oh, well, I probably shouldn't say what I see. This is a family-friendly blog, and we have guests today. 😀
@A. Marie, lol keep it G rated ha ha.
@A. Marie,
Okay, I'm not the only one who saw....erm....something else. 😉
This is pretty much the only place on the internet that I enjoy reading the comments and don’t regret it afterwards! I’m thankful for the peaceful space here.
@JenRR, agreed!! 🙂
@PD, I agree! And I wonder why that is. I mean, yes, this is not a political forum, but other frugality blogs aren't like this.
@Maggie, It's because Kristen is way nicer than any other frugality bloggers.
@Rose, So true. Niceness begets niceness. And no one wants to disappoint Kristen.
First, I'm thankful to everyone who offered support and suggestions yesterday, in reply to my comment about the Nefertiti Harris case and ways I might respond to it through volunteering.
Second, I'm thankful that my next-door neighbor's nephew and his wife will be coming here for a brief visit on Easter Day. (I wish it could be longer, but it's all their travel schedule will permit, unfortunately; they have business in a city east of here.) I've offered to make a modest Easter lunch, so that NDN doesn't have to cook for them and so that I can meet them (for the first time in many years).
Third, I'm thankful for the return of milder weather. I'd better get out there and start doing some garden cleanup; Dr. Bestest Neighbor has started his already.
BFF always left one lower kitchen cabinet empty for her cat, Hortense. I was supposed to take her but her brother did instead and he texts me pictures of her sometimes.
Thankful:
That I had that last time with BFF before her death. I still sometimes panic a little because she's gone, but at least my kids got to know her even so far away.
No green here yet, but in addition to our local Carolina wren, who is so loud, there is a bird (I should figure out what kind) who literally sounds like it's saying TWEET! TWEET! TWEET!
I found a local guy who does local fish and wildlife cams and posts the videos to FB. Today, an unkindness of ravens and a bald eagle were picking a deer carcass clean. Yesterday, so many sharks (the harmless dogfish kind).
Rescue Pup. He loves to be with us, especially me. It occurred to me that being a stray puppy, no one had loved him before me. Oh, he is going to be hard to allow someone else to adopt.
The handyman! He is so calm cool and collected, and while I'm fairly good at solving problems, he's even better. He fixed my daughter's room's doorknob the other day, showing me the lock mechanism. He used to work at the Dakota and they have the exact same kind of locks as my doors. He worked to clear out Nureyev's apartment after his death, ripping down hand-embossed Russian leather wallcoverings. I let out a little shriek after that and he said he saved a piece. He worked a lot on Yoko's apartment, and one time ran into Lauren Bacall in the service elevator. She asked him what flat he was working in, and then sniffed, "Oh, Yoko! Well, SHE can afford a new kitchen."
@Rose,
I just loooove nature web cams. There's two online that show two different bald eagle's nests - one is actually not far from my house - and a friend of mine (who lives on Long Island) has a nest cam in the owl box they have in their yard. (A pair of screech owls are nesting there for the second year in a row, and Mama Owl has laid 5 eggs. Hoping to see owlets soon!).
I need your handyman....we have a door knob (newer) that doesn't work properly, as well as plenty of other projects that need attention. Not as interesting as working at the Dakota, lol. Isn't he the one that recently had a run-in with the Mafia?
@Liz B., Yep! Colorful character.
This guy also has a nest cam for barn owls. Feh. Everyone knows great horned owls are best the owls.
Fish Guy Photos is his FB page, if anyone wants to take a look. I find the fish videos so relaxing. I've always wanted a temperate freshwater tank, actually.
@Rose, Sorry, that is the snowy owl, aka polar owl.
@Lindsey, O RLY? Well, they're here too and they're beautiful. I once saw one dead by the side of the road and felt terrible.
@Rose, and @ Lindsey,
They are both magnificent....I have probably mentioned this before, but 2 years ago, a snowy owl took up residence in downtown Cincinnati - in the outer rafters of our largest sports arena. Of course, there was much excitement in the local birding community, though I didn't get to see it. There was also a Great Horned Owl family in a park not that far from me - again, about two years ago - mama, papa, and two owlets. So, so awesome to see and photograph then. A park naturalist this past winter told me they have not been seen in the park since then.
Finally, I highly recommend the book What An Owl Knows.....fascinating.
@Liz B., They are magnificent. A friend of mine works in our local wildlife rescue, which is really too far away from me, and frequently takes a great horned owl who loves her to local schools and whatnot. I wish I could find a picture of them--she used to be a Ralph Lauren model and is gorgeous, and then to see a great horned owl on her arm is amazing.
That said, my sister and I used to be friends with Mercedes Lackey, the fantasy writer, who does bird rehab in her spare time, and she said the one bird she won't take is an owl. They're just too dangerous and unpredictable.
Found a pic of my friend and Meep.
https://ibb.co/19qmFGF
@Rose, nothing wrong with having a foster fail.
@Marybeth from NY, That's how I got my beloved coonhound. That said, four dogs? *whimper*
@Rose, you're right--they are both gorgeous!!
@Rose,
VERY COOL! Both are gorgeous!
I have two friends who volunteer at Sweet Briar wildlife rehab center (in Smithtown, NY), and they have various resident owls that their handlers take to educational programs, including a Great Horned Owl
One volunteer (who I don't know) brings his own Spectacle owl with him when he volunteers. I've seen photos, and they're quite striking
Good job on getting some things done on your list!
My sister started out as a float nurse at hospital & really enjoyed it (& learned a lot). My cousins daughter wanted to wide array of experiences for an emergency room nurse (& absolutely loves it--even on the night shift!).
Thankful for the short lived warm weather days. Even though was only about 1 whole day total, before storms that cooled everything down again, I really enjoyed the warm weather. The cold/warm weather rollercoaster can go into longer warm days anytime soon (please 🙂 ).
Thankful NO TORNADO with this last storm. There was chance of isolated tornadoes (& we usually get anything that has chance of weather related) but luckily we did not. WINDY, Hail & sheets of heavy rain quickly. Then cold, colder & more cold. Still not cleaned up from February tornado.
Thankful for mostly patient clients as we near the end of tax season. For the most part people are fairly understandable able limited time available & possibility of drop off might be best solution. I'm preparing to start giving extensions after Easter & being prepared to give clients (not great news in my opinion) amount of payment that should be sent with extension paperwork.
Thankful for coworkers (& boss) that have been (unofficially) taking turns bringing in food/treats/lunch to share with everyone in office. We are at point of time where its working lunch & grab something passing through.
Thankful that teen has been helping out over spring break since unable to go away anywhere. Teen has actually stepped up & helped with dishes (never done dishes by hand before & was not motivated to do so normally) though does few at time with more dish soap than needed, but still gets done. 🙂
Thankful rescue dogs love spending time with teen & they play (kind of rough sometimes) with teen & each other.
Thankful for the sunshine today that I get to see driving into work & (maybe) through window at work (if I make it that close) even on this cold day.
Have good day. 🙂
@Regina,
Lol about yout teen using too much dish soap....we just smile and say "thank you for doing [xyz chore]". When my teen son cleans his bathroom, he doesn't do as thorough of a job as I would, but it's DONE. Smiles and thank yous given.
I'm loving the green you picked for the little table! I can't wait to see the finished product.
That cat is so cute!
I'm thankful so much for spring and the flowers blooming and all that the better weather brings...more outdoor activities, community events, etc
I'm thankful a CPR class is coming up next week that my husband and I signed up for months ago. Neither of us have taken a CPR class in over 20 years (He took one when he entered the military. I took one while in college).
I'm thankful for Easter and that I will see my extended family this weekend and get to spend a few days with them all.
@Marlena,
There have been several changes in CPR in 20 years. It is simpler. The use of AED's which are in a lot of places now also helps.
@Chrissy, a good friend's heart stopped in the middle of the night and her husband and kids did CPR until the ambulance arrived. She survived and now has a pace maker. I realized then that neither of us had learned the newer way to do CPR and wouldn't really be prepared in an emergency.
@Marlena,
So thankful for them. And good for you to be prepared!
I couldn't agree with you more! We'd previously selected a quieter location (going west) vs. the busier location (all points east) for all our DMV needs. But the appointment thing makes things so much easier, especially since we've begun the season of kids getting permits and such. Wow. Big difference. I imagine it significantly reduces the stress of the DMV workers too.
(WARNING: I feel Easter joy bubbling up a few days early, so this could be extensive.) This week I am thankful:
*for silly chickens and fresh eggs. Also, for the quail eggs my neighbor gave me. Yesterday I hardboiled and peeled them (no small task). They are now soaking in brine in a jar (and looking so cute!) and waiting for Sunday's dinner.
*for the Church year. All the anticipation of Easter is building. My kids' piano playing in the basement is reflecting this: the last couple of days "Stricken, Smitten, and Afflicted" has been played less frequently, and tunes whose words include the forbidden A-word have been played with more frequency. I love the appointed seasons, each special in the life of the Church.
*that my son's YouTube channel (which he only told me about yesterday!) does not contain anything that I would be embarrassed by. Sometimes you just don't know what will come out of his mouth, but his videos are pretty upbeat.
*that college boy was invited to audition for an honors recital. (He loves music so much.) Also that he has many invitations over the Easter break, many opportunities to be with people when campus is basically shut down. I asked him if he could figure out a way to teleport home, but so far he's failed in this. 🙁
*for coffee and homemade bread. Those smells are amazing.
*for this blog. I, too, like the comments. But. I keep failing in my efforts to reduce the amount of time I spend reading/commenting.
*for my husband. He just asked, "What's the point of a gazing ball?" Does anybody here know? I don't.
@Jody S., They're supposed to ward off evil spirits and witches.
@Jody S.,
I think it has multiple purposes:
1. To reflect the light and the beauty of the plants in the garden.
2. To provide a man-made focal point to emphasize that a garden is a natural space that is tamed and maintained by humans.
3. To provide a soft space to gaze into for meditative purposes.
4. And, if you're a bit vain, you can check how your hair looks while you're gardening. 😉
@Jody S.,
If I remember correctly, and someone please correct me if this is wrong, weren't gazing balls used in olden times so a young maiden could surreptitiously gaze at the object of her affection while out in the garden? Which sounds terribly romantic to me. @Becca has lots of good purposes listed as well, though I likely have Bozo the Clown hair when gardening. 😉
@Liz B.,
Then they are good for a laugh, too. 😉
@Becca,
Yup! I am quite the sight when I'm gardening. 😉
I do t think I’ve ever commented on a blog post before in my life but you all seem so lovely I had to join in!
1. It’s been super busy the last week but I remembered to go to the grocery store so I could add things to a salad I already had to bring to work tonight.
2. A couple of days off for my daughter’s spring break and then a few more towards the end of the month for a Mommycation.
3. I’m in the sweet spot of my career and it’s amazing. Doesn’t seem to be changing any time soon either!
@Bess, welcome! The water is lovely here.
@Bess, welcome! this community is so nice and entices you to comment because one feels so welcome.
@Bess, Welcome to the Commenting Club and that's great about your career.
Aww, I'm so glad you felt comfortable enough to join us. I'm scooting over on the virtual bench to make room for you. 🙂
Hi Chiquita!
As I said in my frugal things list, I am very grateful to have got a payrise. I can only do so many frugal things on a fixed income and this is a big relief. It's good to have more 'fun money' as well as money for necessities!
I'm thankful to have some days off for Easter and thankful that I can go home next week. It was too expensive to travel this week but I am enjoying relaxing and having more time for things. On a minor note, I'm thankful Easter is this weekend because I gave chocolate up for Lent (done for reasons of willpower, not religion).
I'm thankful to live close to beautiful nature spots and to feel safe enough to walk alone around them. I think sometimes people assume everyone can go outside for 'free entertainment' but some live in unsafe areas and/or with little nature nearby.
So thankful today for:
Purring cat that has adopted us. She is affectionate and very polite.
New toaster oven to be delivered next week.
Gifted conductor of Brahms German Requiem, teaching us singers so much with such joy.
Improved mobility thanks to cortisone shot in my knee.
My supportive and loving husband.
@Kristina, ooooh I love German Requiem. One of my desert island pieces!
Ohh, that requiem is so beautiful!
This week I'm thankful:
* for time with my extended family last week and my husband's extended family this week.
* that my kids get along most of the time.
* that my in-laws were fine with us bringing our dog to their house.
* that my in-laws live close to historical places. I never got to see Philadelphia or DC as a kid, but now my kids have seen the Liberty Bell and Independence Hall! What a cool experience!
* for access to books. I'm reading an interesting one right now, but as we visited historical places this week, I found myself wanting to learn more. I know that once I'm home, I can just go to the library and find something on the topic.
* that I live out in the country. The visit to the big city was fun, but it is not for me. I'm glad to be in a rural place for everyday life.
The Chiquita hotel is THE cutest thing!!!
Thankful that Spring has arrived here in the South. It is difficult to be down when the sky is blue, the sun is shining and temps are in the 60's.
Thankful for Spotify. I made a quick Worship playlist the other day and I was thinking back to the days when I made mixed tapes for this same purpose. Remember those? They took hours to create and were sometimes tedious but playlists are quick and easy, perfect for Spring drives with the sunroof open.
For workouts that not only strengthen my body further but allow me to feel how far I have come on this journey. Being able to complete all the sets and reps is a huge win for me.
Super grateful to have so many people in my corner nudging and reminding me that self care is important and boundaries are okay. I think as women, wives, caretakers and parents it is all too easy to take yourself off the list altogether. Here lately it has become very important that I put the oxygen mask on myself so that I can care for others and I am grateful for all those in my circle encouraging me to do so.
And one extra this week - it is looking like we might actually be able to be back in our home by the 2nd week of April. THIS is everything my friends. Being displaced from your home for 4.5 months is no joke. I will most certainly cry tears of joy.
@Angie, so happy that you may be back in your home soon! Click those ruby slippers and repeat...
Happy you have 3 months off - a wonderful break from studies.
Thankful for progress on shouse. Have drywall & knockdown, now just need to pray cabinet maker can get them done as that's the next step.
Excellent PT to get full range hip motion.
That our church is having 4 services for Easter so we can choose.
Trip to Missouri home & visits with old friends (the best kind).
Grandsons baptisms last weekend!
- We’re getting a tax refund. I’ll roll it into this year’s quarterlies but at least I know the money in the bank is ours for now.
- I spent the day in the Anza-Borrego Desert yesterday with my husband and teen daughters. The flowers are at end of their season so not as amazing as expected, but the iron sculptures are very cool and we had a great time together on an outing.
- My friend Shari is a faithful prayer warrior for me. It’s amazing to tell her what God has been doing and then to hear she was praying for that thing.
@Jessica Fisher, My good (religious) friend prayed hard I'd be able to rescue this puppy. And I did!
I saw Laura's mention of this site and was so pleased!
I'm thankful -
1. For a photo forwarded to me of my cousin, smiling. She is (mentally) developmentally disabled and was deeply devastated after her parents finally died. An unfortunate misunderstanding on her part had her estranged from her only sibling, her older brother, so she moved from her parents' home to a group home rather than live with him and his sweet wife. He remained kind and patient and has been rewarded with finally being able to visit with her again. To see her smiling at her brother in the photo is a blessing. Her age is right between mine and my middle sister's, and while we didn't live very near them as kids, we visited her family often, so we three girls were close.
2. For this year's harvest of loquats. It's frustrating when a late freeze wipes them out, but this year, they made it through the cold snaps, and I'm enjoying them! I canned some already and have a big bowl full in the refrigerator now to make jam. Of course, I grab one or more off the tree to eat fresh every time I go outdoors.
3. That the stripped pine tree I hear creaking ominously in the woods next to my house every time the wind blows strongly, is leaning away from my fence, not toward it. This tree will be a late hurricane casualty, as it clearly will be falling at some point.
4. That I got an all-clear on my skin check at the dermatologist's office this week. After having four skin cancers, I get checked regularly.
5. For a daughter and son-in-law willing to host both sides of the family for Easter lunch after church, when their lives are already so hectic. For being on good terms with my son-in-law's family, so sharing holidays with them is no problem.
@JD, your #1 is heartwarming. It's always good when family estrangements can come to an end. And blessings on your cousin's brother for his patience.
I'm more of a "commenter on the comments made by the Frugalista Commentariat", but hooray for the shout-out by Laura! Reading the comments is often the highlight of my day. Great job getting most of your spring break list checked off. Chiquita never fails to make me smile.
I'm thankful for.....
- the physical ability (recent knee replacement notwithstanding), time off work, and resources to paint my son's bedroom over spring break. Thankful he chose Winter White for the walls and a light Beach Sand color for the trim. He truly could have chosen ANY color, and we would have gone with it. His room isn't done yet, but already looks bright and clean.
-hubby and son helping with son's room rehab (always thankful for both of them). Son wants less furniture in his room, and has willingly gone through stuff he no longer wants (which is being given away on my Buy Nothing group).
- for the brave daffodil that bloomed in my front yard, in spite of being in a pretty shady area. I was given the bulb years ago at a hospice 5K walk, and planted it in honor of a dear friend's mom (her mom was like a mom to me).
-for all of the birds that come to my feeders.
- for dear friends who live near and far.....I am so fortunate to have friends who are family.
-for running water, indoor plumbing, a dishwasher, heat/AC, plenty of food, a roof over my head. I know not everyone has these.
Thankfulness
1. Handy people. My stepdad, stepbrother, and friend came over and built us a set of stairs to our deck in a morning. They started around 8 and were done (including clean up!) by noon.
2. Similar to what Kristen said - online scheduling and filling out of paperwork is the best. Need to order a well and septic test? Boom, done. Need to send some documents to your bank for your loan? Upload in a secure portal. Need to get a quote for movers? Do an online form. Love it!
3. A very understanding boss, who is letting me take a bit of time tomorrow morning for a house inspection. Through this whole process, she has been so flexible when I have to give short notice for being out of the office. I can get most of my work done at home, while I'm waiting for people, but being able to just run away is very helpful.
4. For friends and family who have offered to help us move. My partner is in a bit of a tizzy because we didn't expect our house to sell so quickly. I think with our tribe, we could get it done, but he's worried about the timing.
5. Books on tape. It's so nice to listen to a book while packing. I don't need a lot of brain power to wrap up plates, so can focus on the book. Also, if I tell myself I can only listen to the book while I do housework or pack, I tend to get a lot more done.
@Angel, tell your partner, worse comes to worst, the movers can pack too.
@Rose, Good idea! I'll remind him of that too. 🙂
@Angel, I'm a person who often works themself into a tizz too, so I feel for him.
@Rose, Even if you get most of your packing done yourself, it's a good idea to have the movers pack your breakables. That way if (when?) something breaks, there's no question that they're responsible and therefore need to recompense you for the damage. If you pack it, they'll argue that your packing is at fault.
I'm always so amazed & impressed by the comments on your blog. It's a wonderful community, & unlike most, which makes it even more special.
1) Grateful for the time to decompress, think about what I want to do next & enjoy time with my husband and teens right now.
2) Even though the rain can be irritating (when I want to do yard work!), I know we need it, so I'm appreciative that we are recovering from the drought.
3) I was at DS17's tennis match this week, and he had lots of friends stop by to cheer him on. I love that he's built a community for himself.
4) When we moved away from my family 10+ years ago, we established a different Easter tradition that we enjoy. Even DS17 asked if we were having our annual egg hunt on Sunday. We have a large backyard, and hide the eggs back there. The teens laugh, say they are too old for it, but secretly still enjoy it. 😉
5) That we are so close to a decision for where DS18 will go to college. We are doing our final tour next weekend, and then he should be able to decide. A lot of other decisions are waiting for this one, so it will be so nice to have it nailed down.
@Hawaii Planner, our neighbors who are adults in their 60s asked us to hide eggs for them and their 2 grown daughters, late 20s and early 30s. It was a hoot!!
When I was 22 and a senior in college, BFF and I and our other roommates colored eggs and then our landlord (a very dear friend, I miss him so) hid them for us.
My parents always hid eggs inside, as did I for my kids, but our church used to have an egg hunt for Sunday school students, and at the time it was adjacent to one of those lavish Long Island mansions, and the old lady who lived there allowed the egg hunt on her property. One of my dearest memories is an Easter Sunday, me in my pretty new dress, hunting for eggs in a huge field filled with daffodils.
in 1974, the old lady died and the estate houses bulldozed, and hideously ugly condos built.
@Rose, That brings back a fun memory: When I was in college, all us dorm-workers scheduled to work the Easter holiday weekend decided to have an midnight Easter egg hunt followed by a late-night supper. We used hard boiled eggs, and planned to use them for egg salad. We found all but one of the eggs. Our dorm mother was livid and made us wait supper until the errant egg was found. We ended up eating at 2 a.m. The missing egg was found in a hanging light fixture.
@Fru-gal Lisa, So cute!
Hardboiled eggs are the only true Easter eggs. If your tradition is plastic eggs, I'm sorry to have to inform you that you, your family, and your tradition are WRONG.
Hahah, well, I'm WRONG then. 😉
@Fru-gal Lisa, also not sure what a dorm worker or a dorm mother is.
@Rose, Miss Trunchbull from Matilda, perhaps? (the dorm mother)
@Rose,
Lol, wrong Easter tradition here, too! 😉
@Rose, rarely a time when a property of any shape or size is dozed and something other than hideously ugly takes its place.
For Lent this year I cut down on computer time, which is why am commenting only sparingly. However I am certainly staying on the internet for the one blog where there is always a wonderful mixture of sensible thought, warm sense of community, laughs, and willingness to question both self and others if needed. Thanks all for that!
This week I am thankful for the genius of JS Bach and for how singing his music makes me feel, and for looking ahead to the Easter weekend and the friends and family I will meet.
Also: green tea
Chiquita is such a cutie.
I'm thankful for neighbors who are also good friends. We spent a morning hanging out with them last week and it was so nice.
We're camping this week and I'm grateful we both enjoy it so much. It really is a frugal way to travel. We do have a camper van, which wasn't cheap but it's paid for and if you don't stay in fancy RV parks it's cheap or even free and we have visited so many beautiful places.
For dogs that travel well.
For good health.
I’m thankful for:
-friends I can be vulnerable & real with a few friends
-new coffee machine that keeps my coffee warm all day (my old one was on its last leg & that was 5 years ago!).
-steady rain to help me sleep at night
-long distance art projects with friends
-for a generous Buy Nothing Group community
-spring blossoms starting on trees & spring blooms in the fields
Also I love the idea of a cat hotel! My kitty Milo has several nooks, one is in our tv stand, we leave the door open so he can access his cozy bed. Another is in this weird extra space between the bathroom cabinets & the wall in guest bath. It is less than a foot wide but it is big enough to fit a crunchy cat bed & several blankets. Gives him the opportunity to surprise guests!
Yay for a nice summer break! That is a great thing to look forward to.
Having a dedicated float nurse is awesome.
Thankfully...
1. Got to spend time with my mom and sister last week
2. My kids did awesome in their school's spring fine arts program
3. Very thankful for Easter and all that it represents
4. For books and that my kids like to read and be ready to
5. That my husband got to come home from a work trip a day early
Of course it's a cat hotel! Bunnies, surprisingly enough, do the same. They like their cozy spaces.
@Daisy, Dogs like to den. My beagle Bertie used to sleep in our bedroom fireplace. Mmmmm, cozy and hard!
About the DMV: you'd wait in line, not even knowing it if was the right line!
@Central Calif. Artist Jana, AMEN!
@Central Calif. Artist Jana,
My small town's DMV had a terrible reputation for extremely long waits, rude staff who gave the wrong information, you name it. Many folks, including myself and my hubby, got in the habit of going to other nearby DMVs. About a year or so ago, it changed management, and everything changed....no long waits, everyone is friendly and polite! It's so nice!
This comment section is awesome. It's rare to find a social place not full of people being jerks to one another.
Thankful for:
No longer working at school. I quit to stay home after having a preemie during COVID and it's great. This year has been horrible and full of drama with a new superintendent and school board and new drama unleashed yesterday has the entire community pretty much about it in uproar. I'm glad to be out of there (as an employee, still student parent though) for so many reasons.
Was able to find a Blue's Clue ball yesterday to give my toddler for Easter. It's hard finding Blue's things and it's his two favorite things as well as two of just a handful of words he can say - ball (ba) and Blue (bu).
Some alone time to get some things done. My parents usually watch the toddler one day a week while the older is at school but it's been rare lately because of sickness and injuries. Finally got a few free hours to get things done.
All the flowers popping up.
I'm thankful that my friend is listening to some of my frugal advice. We went to the library for a free exhibit and I got some seeds while he read the paper. He has a library card for the first time in years, so I'm slowly introducing him to its wonders.
Thankful that I took care of my big fubar (to me at least) at work and my boss wasn't even upset, but glad I told her what I'd done.
Grateful that my bruises and pains are slowly getting better after my TWO falls last week, one outside on concrete and one inside. Also glad that my glasses weren't broken and could be bent back into shape. Still waiting on x-ray results.
Grateful for two decent nights of sleep in a row.
Grateful that my taxes aren't too complicated since there are only 2o days left to file, and that I have most of the info I'll need already gathered.
Grateful that I found this blog.
@Dee in AZ,
I'm glad you're basically okay after having two falls! Hoping the x-rays don't show any fractures or other issues.
@Liz B., thank you! I'm trying to figure out some ways to keep from falling! Otherwise I may have to encase myself in bubble wrap!
Just have to say I feel a happiness just reading all the comments. Love that a lot of people are experiencing spring. Here in north central WV, the daffodils are growing wildly all over and the grass and underbrush is so green and beautiful. Love it.
Like K D, I just had my annual gyno appt. At 63, things are different and I was referred to a MD practice that only works with post menopausal women. What a difference than a regular gyno. I did see the nurse practitioner, and it was wonderful to have a conversation with her and not feel like a peon. She actually listened and offered compassion and excellent care and resolution. Just what I needed!!!!
And @FrugalGirl, I remember going to the DMV when I first learned to drive in the late 70's waiting for hours - yes hours - just to get to the question line to have them point you to a different line. That was on Long Island and I now live in WV, where there are way fewer people, so not a long wait at all even if you just show up. But you can also make a reservation.
I am also thankful that the rain is staying East of us. Were we are now, the coastal storms don't reach us, which is kinda nice, especially if it is snow. Unfortunately, no baseball for me today as my Mets are already postponed in Queens, NY.
And thankful that next week, my granddaughter will be visiting with us. It's great that she is spending the week with us. We are both looking forward to it.
I remember waiting there for over five hours to get my new driver's license after I got married!
@Maureen, if you feel like a peon after any medical appointment, time to find a new doctor/practice. In general, women area treated like dirt by the medical society. NPs are helping but we're a long way from getting the care we deserve. I'm almost the same age and when I went in for a establish visit with my new doc, the NP "started" to ask "when was your last period question". Which has irked me to no end for decades - not a factor in treating me. If I am hemorrhaging, who cares when my last period was? If I have a GSW, who cares when my last period was? So f-ing tired of of decades of that question. Now when I get that same stupid question, I say "I don't remember". Nurse says guess and I say "nope, don't remember". I doubt any medical professional asks a male questions re: his reproductive system.
I know that's kind of an annoying question to have to answer, but since the female reproductive system is a little more complex than the male system, we do have some good reasons for asking about menstrual periods, like to establish possibility of pregnancy, to establish if someone is in menopause, or also because a period (or lack thereof) can give us some clues about what's going on with the body in general.
I can't really think of an analogous question to ask men!
And of course, if you were in a life threatening situation like hemorrhaging, we would be busy trying to save your life, not asking about your last menstrual period. 😉
I love the pic of Chiquita. I have made the second shelf of my bedside table into a kitty nap spot, it's only big enough for the smallest kitties (we have 3 that are 29, 31 & 35 lbs).
Thankful that my puppy training is showing promise: Nasty storm this morning, my big Maine Coon was hunting between the big barn and tractor shed, I noticed a pair of golden eagles working that part of the pasture and I freaked, pup went and found the cat and rounded him up to the back patio (about 500 yds) and then barked at me to let them in. She earned a special jerky treat!
Enjoying the hummingbirds visiting the feeders. I'm making 2 quarts of food/day.
I received a second degree burn on my forearm and am thankful for my training in the burn unit and my extensive first aid chest. Had another wound nurse look at it from a professional perspective and he determined I should buy a lottery ticket...too funny.
I chose to take a 3 day resource nurse shift to give my friends at work a chance to celebrate the Easter season with their small children. Received $100 credit for my fuel delivery (diesel) for having an account -in-good-standing with the company for 40 years. So nice! I took the office girls a bouquet of daffodils.
Have a wonderful Thursday!
I love this comment section as well. It's such an uplifting place in the midst of so much internet negativity.
I am so thankful this week that . . .
-I have so much cancer care behind me. I am grateful simply to be alive. But it just sweetens the deal to know that chemo and surgery and surgery recovery are all behind me now. I've still got radiation and then reconstructive surgery at the end of the year. But the two hardest parts are in the rearview.
-My health insurance deductible and out of pocket are paid, which means everything for the rest of the year is free free free! Even my prescriptions, evidently.
-The home exchanges are set, and the flights are booked for the summer. I love to travel so much, and I'm so blessed to have the means to do so, but it stresses me out to do all the booking. Something about spending such a large amount at one time and also the finger crossing to make sure the itineraries all come together and I get the best deal.
-I am able to mentally hold so much in the air. We are moving out of one office tomorrow. I am managing the move, the renovation of the new space, which is not ready yet, and the rehab of our second home. While I am undergoing cancer treatment. And I have a full time job. And we have four kids. It's a lot right now. I feel stressed. But I am also capable of all this. And things like renovations won't last forever.
@Amanda in VA, Reading your list, you're not just garden-variety capable - you're definitely black belt/ninja level expert, in my book!
@Suz, I second this!
@Amanda in VA, you have an amazing attitude about your health and work/life responsibilities.
@Amanda in VA, what Suz and MB said. You rock.
I found you years ago when Laura Vanderkam mentioned you on her blog. She said you had an easy approach to frugality that didn’t feel judgmental or intimidating (something like that). So true!
Aww, that is a very nice compliment!
Good for you crossing off so many items on your list! I always get so stressed out by long to do lists. My brain doesn't understand that not everything needs to be done right now.
Kristen, I hope the table can pull double duty as both a nightstand and a cat hotel!
And I too am thankful for my DMV office. They have a terrific system with a line for tab renewals only, and for everything else they have a triage person who makes sure you have everything you need before giving you a number to get into the queue. There are appointments, too, but walk-ins move quickly. It is a well-oiled machine.
@MB in MN, IDK....that looks DANGEROUSLY colorful for Kristen.
Haha, yes, this is what we say when we see me using a muted green. Like...WHOA WHAT HAPPENED TO HER??
I have a feeling that if you took a vote, that space would remain a Chiquita landing spot.
I was thankful to have a good visit with a new to me Cardiology Nurse Practitioner yesterday. I find it easier to talk to her than with the Cardiologist. He's very nice but a little intimidating. She's helping me put the differing modality (endocrinology, nephrology, cardiology) puzzle pieces together.
Thankful for being able to have Miss Molly groomed today. The groomer girls love her disposition. She's worn out from the visit, though. She's so soft and smells so good!
Thankful for warmer weather and the real possibility of getting yard work done. I have ideas looming around in my head for changing some things around to make it look less messy (in the summer and fall) and more appealing so that other people can see the importance and value of planting for pollinators.
But before the yard work, I'm thankful to be able to get the laundry done and vacuum. It's not much progress to clean the dog and not clean the house. And there's nothing like clean sheets!
My yard is full of blooms. Hellebores, daffs, little blue anemones, squill, a couple of regular hyacinths, and a mass of grape hyacinths (that need thinned out). In a few days, the Virginia bluebells will be rampant. I did n0t plant the bluebells, but I'm awfully thankful the former residents did.
Me over here considering keeping one of the drawers out for her. lol
One huge thankful eclipses everything else: a dear friend's husband finally admitted his helplessness over meth and has called the VA for rehab help. I almost feel weak with relief.
@Central Calif. Artist Jana,
That is wonderful news! Admitting the need for help seems so hard for people with dependency issues to do.
Fantastic news.
Ohhhh, good. I hope he is able to get the kind help he needs.
@Kristen, @Rose, @JD, if he follows through. . . but one step at a time.
@Central Calif. Artist Jana, I know. I have a good friend whose husband left her because he'd rather smoke crack in their garage than be a husband and father.
Of course we made 50000 jokes about it, like "After a long hard day of work, nothing soothes the nerves like some sweet crack cocaine." I said to her, "Note to self. Don't meet next husband at NA meetings," (she did).
She got divorced, married someone else who doesn't touch drugs, and eventually her ex, who I was actually really fond of, kicked it. Phew.
@Central Calif. Artist Jana,
Thst is HUGE. I hope he does follow through.
I’m thankful for…
-Spring break next week!
-Some beautiful weather right this moment
-For new friends
-For my kids and husband
-My old reliable car. I’d love a new one but my current car is generally reliable and paid for!
-For my pets, dog snuggles are so sweet
-For your blog and its commenters 🙂
<3
Thankful that:
1. we found someone to replace our roof (second time we tried this project) and got on his list for the summer.
2. our bachelor friend has lost 100 pounds. He has struggled so hard and Ozempic has worked for him. He is giddy and tearful both when he talks about it.
3. all my seeds being started for May greenhouse transplanting have germinated.
4. yesterday it was 60 years since Alaska had the strongest earthquake ever recorded in the U.S. and the second most powerful in the world; both those records still stand. The devastation was enormous, with the main street of Anchorage dropping down 20 feet, far away villages hit with tsunamis, and a year of aftershocks. Many people died, and more would have except it was Good Friday and schools let out early. I am thankful we have not had another quake like that, although we still get plenty of lower level ones that knock things off shelves. Those are frightening enough.
5. the husband, always the husband.
@Lindsey,
I was young, but I remember hearing, seeing and reading about that quake. It was horrifying. May there never be another one there like that.
@Lindsey,
I have a friend who was in that earthquake as a child. Her father was stationed at an army base near Anchorage. I have spoken with her several times about that day. I became fascinated by that particular earthquake after visiting Alaska. (Actually much about Alaska fascinated me).
However, many do not know that the impacts of the 1964 earthquake were felt in Lower 48 too. Crescent City, California had significant damage resulting from a Tsunami following the Alaska earthquake. https://www.sfgate.com/news/article/Crescent-City-tsunami-1964-Alaska-earthquake-12517983.php
I also hope that we never see a earthquake like this again. Although the world is always changing, it was a rare quake and chances of it happening again any time soon are slim for what I understand. The book, The Great Quake by Henry Fountain, outlines some of what seismologist learned from the particular event.
Ok , I’m fine being a science nerd now.
@Lindsey, I still remember reading a 1965 article in National Geographic by the Lowell Thomas Jr. family about their personal experiences of the 1964 earthquake in Anchorage. Scary stuff.
@Lindsey, I was a child living in the Cascades near Mt. Baker when that earthquake hit. We felt it as well.
I'm thankful that my cat is well again after he ate some leaves from a toxic plant. I'm also thankful that we were able to treat him at home without incurring a huge vet bill.
I'm thankful for all the signs of spring I'm seeing outside, especially the roses that are starting to bloom in the front yard.
I'm thankful for the joy of Easter this coming Sunday, and for the fact that I'll be able to eat chocolate again after giving it up for Lent.
1. My work calendar is filling up fast; I have a substitute teacher gig for every day the rest of this month, all of April and the first couple of weeks in May. More days will follow as we get closer to the end of school.
2. Getting to go out to dinner with friends this week. A lovely treat!
3. Wildflowers in full bloom.
4. Being able to attend church and worship in freedom
5. Everything Christ has done for us all
my dot's pretzels came today. wow. they are delicious. thanks for talking about them.
love the photos of chiquita. hope you enjoy your three month break.
- brown bag lunch date with two good friends
- a day with almost full sunshine
- taxes are done
- my kids are creatively enjoying their day off of school (collaboratively, no arguing)
- relishing the prospect of a 3 day weekend
Thankful for our road trip during Spring Break ! Saved on air travel and enjoyed the beautiful Florida and Georgia scenery!
Chiquita must have that space going forward! She laid her claim.
I’m thankful for the peeks inside your nursing work. I’ve always loved looking into different industries' workdays from Mr. Rogers featuring one each program. And hospitals are especially fascinating because let’s face it, sooner or later we will all spend some time there.
For adult kids. Just as Kristen traveled to Hawaii because Lisey chose to live there, our kids live in interesting places. And they also have great ideas for meeting up in new states and countries for vacations. It offsets the sadness of having them live a distance away a little bit (but not altogether).
Verrry thankful for this blog, Kristen and the awesome commentariat. Insightful, witty, wise, even snarky in the right way and always kind, every one. What fun it would be to meet up!
@Erika JS,
Meow, if you're just going to give it to me, I don't want it, meow. Who do you think I am? Some kind of cat who can't steal hidey holes for herself, meow?
That my father is doing so well in his widowerhood. He's really beating the odds with that one. (I'm visiting him.)
For the large numbers of beautiful orchids at the botanic garden we went to.
For knowing how to get discounted affinity tickets. I found the science museum underwhelming but since we paid about 40% of list, I didn't feel badly about it.
For how peaceful and not overwhelmed I feel when I stay somewhere else.
For Past Me, who made sure that my doggo is always cleared to stay at more than one kennel. When he got booted from the nicer one - I didn't know they'd moved; he wasn't familiar with the new place; he almost snapped at someone - I could take him to the other place. Also for Travel Preparedness me, who gave themselves plenty of time to effect the change of location, thus not missing my flight.
For this wonderful community.
So glad your dad is doing well!
@WilliamB, when you fly back home, tuck an empty water bottle in your carry-on or totebag or backpack. After going through security, fill it up at a drinking fountain and you won't have to pay the confiscatory price for water at the news stands or or wherever inside the airport!
@WilliamB,
I’m glad your father is doing well and you are able to visit.
I love orchids and often visit botanic gardens. I do have a small collection of them. Do you grow them?
Thankful for slightly better weather so the dogs can go for walks.
For an anonymous person who paid the bar and food bill for my co-worker who got married yesterday. Couldn't have happened to a nicer couple.
That it is break week at work. Nice and quiet.
My bulbs are popping up but the deer are eating them quicker than they grow. There are 3 little deer who run around the back yard chasing each other. Very cute till they eat your garden.
Looking forward to having fresh berries this year. I have many new shoots and these are fenced off from the deer.
I've listed to Laura before because of your recommendations. Congrats on being mentioned 🙂
My Thankfuls
1) For a husband who loves to take his daughter on daddy daughter dates. He sees when my girls need one on one time and takes them out someplace to eat and catch up.
2) That everyone in my family is FINALLY well and we're over a month long sickness.
3) Since I'm not longer sick, for the energy to get through my to do list. I'm so happy to have laundry finished, clothes and things mended, most of my Christmas decor finally put away, etc.
4) For a chance to volunteer at my church and library. I love that I can give back to them for all they do for us through my time.
5) For sunnier weather even though there's still snow on the ground. I love having my face bathed in the warm sunlight while sitting on the couch meditating or reading a book. Reminds me of when I was younger and did this often.
The carrot legs just made me laugh and laugh
Loved reading everyone's gratitudes today!
I'm thankful:
--that I still had some Novox left from all the dog's surgeries this past year. The vet warned she would develop arthritis in her knees and I've tried some of the OTC anti-inflammatories for dogs, but no matter how I disguise them, she manages to eat around them and spit them out. I found the half-empty bottle on Fri. and started her back on it, and the difference this week is gratifying.
--for the gals in the growth group I co-led at church the past couple of months. It was my first time doing that, and I felt very awkward and inadequate. The pastor encourages the groups to share a meal at some point, so some of us went out for Mexican food last weekend. They wanted to talk more about the subject, even though sessions ended 3 weeks ago, and were so encouraging and insightful, it just made my heart happy. These particular girls are in their 20s, with me old enough to be their grandmother, but we had such a sweet bond--I want to adopt them!
--that my husband has finally realized (without me having to play the bad guy) that he shouldn't be driving any more. He told me he just doesn't feel safe driving the interstate at all now, and I sent up a thank you prayer, because he has had some close calls lately. Then he had his annual eye exam this week, which explained a lot. It's more driving for me, but I am relieved.
--for a slowing down of all the appointments the 3 of us have had since January. I am grateful for the good healthcare we and the dog have had, but I am just so tired of coordinating, scheduling, and advocating.
--that with the calmer schedule I've been able to spend some time sewing. I've been working on a baby quilt, and turning a tablecloth into an apron, while listening to audio books. I'm on a mission to finish up some old projects, so I can start new ones. While I do want my family to give my fabrics and things to other sewists and quilters when I die, that was not my purpose for buying it! It's like having the good china--time to pull it out and enjoy it.
Admittedly I'm a cat person, but gotta say that Chiquita is one of the cutest cats I've seen. She was absolutely an adorable kitten, but unlike many kittens, never lost her appeal when she grew up!
Admittedly, I'm biased, but I agree with your assessment. lol