Thankful Thursday | Kristen + Katy
This will be a little shorter than usual because I am currently in Oregon, hanging with Katy at Fincon!
I'll tell you more about it after I get home!
This week, I am thankful:
that my first work check-in went well
During our weeks of orientation, we get scheduled to have periodic check-ins with the unit manager, and I had my first one this week. My preceptor (the experienced nurse who is teaching me) came along too and she said I'm doing great.
Yay!
Obviously I am not quite ready to be on my own taking care of a full load of patients, but my preceptor seemed to think I was picking up on things quickly, and that means a lot because she has precepted plenty of other new nurses.
that my professor had mercy on me
We had a case study assignment, and our case assignments were based on our last name initials.
Well, I accidentally did the whole assignment in the wrong group because I forgot my last initials changed after my divorce.
Whyyyyy did I only realize this after I wrote a whole essay, with a pile of journal references?? I don't know, but I wanted to cry. These assignments take forever because of the tedium of having to find references for everything I say, so I did not want to start over.
I emailed my professor apologetically, explaining that I had had the other last name for almost 27 years. And thankfully, she had mercy on me and let me keep my original work.
WHEW.
that I'm getting a little more used to Blackboard
My RN school used Canvas as their online learning management system, so I was good at Canvas. But my BSN school uses Blackboard, which is entirely new to me.
I do not like it as much as Canvas, but I am getting better at navigating it now that I'm a few weeks in.
for a safe flight to Portland
My flights were both on time too. And my first leg even had the bonus of an empty middle seat, so I had room to stretch.
that Katy is kindly hosting me
I sure do appreciate her sharing her home with me during the conference!
that I like my nursing job
I'm definitely still in a steep learning curve part of this work, but I do love it. There is never a dull day at the hospital, and I think that's part of why I love it.
My days there feel interesting, challenging, and meaningful, and that's a nice combo.
I missed last week as I had a week off work and was here, there and everywhere, so this covers two weeks (if can remember everything)
- spending time with my sister. We fitted in 2.5 day trips on my week off
• a WI organised trip Kew Gardens which we thoroughly enjoyed. We managed to go through the Palm House before it closes for several years of restoration
• a trip to a craft fair that we enjoy. This was our third annual visit and once again bumped into one of my colleagues who also enjoys crafting
• an afternoon at a local garden centre looking for bits to spend a gift voucher on
- the generous leave allowance I get with my work. My husband unfortunately gets a lot less leave than I do so I end up taking time off for me. Last week this meant I could catch up on some the TV programmes that do not appeal to my husband; he calls them my murder/mystery cakey-bakey programmes
- supportive colleagues who are happy to cover when I (or someone else) is off. Knowing that work for the week I was off was going to be done when it should have been always makes for a more restful time off
- time spent at my allotment. Being in the fresh air and pottering always recharges me. Plus I have had a bumper crop of purple French beans and should have some tomatoes ready at the end of the week
- my weekly crochet/craft group. A welcoming, friendly, diverse group of women spending time together knitting, crocheting or sewing
- that my car got through its MOT and service without any problems. With less kind weather coming up knowing that my car is safe is a reassurance
- and as always, the love and support of family and friends
@Stacey in UK, I love that he refers to them as 'cakey-bakey'!
@Stacey in UK, Sounds like a perfect way to spend a week off. Kew Gardens is on my bucket list for places to visit.
@Kristina M., they have a land train at Kew which takes you round the gardens and you can jump off and on at different points.
Me and my sister are going back next year just the two of us and plan to get the land train to the furthest point and then walk back.
@Sophie in Denmark, I know, so cute. He only likes cakey-bakey when I am actually baking something
@Stacey in UK, oh I love murder/mystery cakey bakey programs too!!! I bet we watch the same ones. <3
@Joyce, add me to this list as well! I love a cozy baking mystery as well as a library/bookstore one!
@Stacey in UK, that sounds great. I love Botanical Gardens but first heard about it in the book The Signature of All Things by Elizabeth Gilbert.
This week I am thankful--
*for a visit from family. That they didn't wreck on their bald tires but made it to our driveway before a complete flat.
*that I've been able to walk more this week. It makes me feel good.
*for our silly kittens. I love to see my children and husband love on them.
*that college boys seem to be doing well.
*for free doll clothes patterns online. We're entering into birthday season.
*for the fun we (my 3 teenagers who are home and I) had reading through a few scenes of a Shakespeare play yesterday. Such silliness with stage directions!
*for the coffee I'm about to make.
*for the free pear-apple things my son's boss gave him for the picking. I'm looking forward to tasting one today.
Aww, Kristen! I’m so glad your teacher was understanding because, of course!!! I hope you have a wonderful time in Portland!
I hope you have a wonderful time at Fincon and with Katy. You two write the only blogs I follow faithfully.
I am thankful for wonderful weather, friends and family, fun birthday celebrations, being temporarily able-bodied, modern conveniences (plumbing, electricity, HVAC, automobiles, appliances, easy access to food), and budget wiggle room.
@K D, you've captured my own thankfuls this week so well that I'll only say, "I second those emotions!" In particular, all hail Kristen and Katy!
@A. Marie, It's a mutual appreciation society, because Kristen and I talk about how much we love having you as a reader!
@Katy @ The Non-Consumer Advocate, and @Kristen, thank you both kindly!
I’m so glad the nurse life is going well go r you!
Thankfuls
-cool days. I don’t like heat. And we’ve moved into the beginning of fall weather, which makes my heart happy.
-new shoes! My new position has me standing almost all day and the first couple days made me feet sore so I got some chacos on clearance so I have good support and can run after elopers, and air my toes all at the same time.
-the money to buy new shoes. I’ve had some lean months in the last few years but right now, I have a bit of flex to get things that improve my life and my kids’ lives. This is good. Even if it doesn’t always last.
-coffee. It’s my warm cozy drink that helps me get going. I’m going to go make some now.
Enjoy FinCon!
This week I am thankful for:
1. A colleague who let me sample a bit of some food she bought yesterday. It went perfectly with my lunch and was delicious!
2. The warm clothing I keep at work. When it's cooler out and the AC is still on at work it's freezing in my office. Time to layer up again.
3. Colleagues who share plant cuttings.
4. That my desk is in a good spot for growing plants. Seeing some greenery during my workday is soothing.
5. Autumn is almost here. My favorite season.
Have fun!
Thanks so much for loving your job as a nurse. After years of not needing medical help, I found myself in the hospital twice within the last three weeks. While the entire hospital was amazing, it was truly the kindness and expertise of the nurses that helped me heal.
Aww, I am so glad you got kind care. Yay!
Two great frugal minds together!!
I'm trying to turn the negatives into positives this week!
*thankful I had the funds to cover a plumbing repair yesterday. Some things I can DIY. Other things, I leave to the professionals! It was pricey, but it is done now.
*thankful for a couple of cool and pleasant mornings this week, although I know its just a preview because temps will be low 90s today. But. The mornings are soooo nice.
*I love that I have the whole fridge and freezer to myself and I actually feel like cooking lately. This is better for my wallet as well as my waistline. I am thankful that I have what feels like a luxurious space for one person. I made a trip to TJ's for easy meals and fun fall foods for said fridge.
Happy rest of your week!
Have a great time at Fincon and enjoy your visit with Katy!
This is an unrelated question to your post that can wait for when you return/ when you have time. It’s regarding your name change, post divorce. I’m 58 and chose to not change my name when I married at age 37. Just me, but I was having a bit of an identity crisis changing my name. In your case, as an adult in your 40’s- I understand your wanting to change your name back, but had it been.., weird? Like such a big pivot, even though it’s a positive thing for you?This might sound strange, and I understand why you would want to do it, and the timing is good (new career). I’m sure it was alot of work to do this, but clearly worth the effort for you.
@Kim from Philadelphia, I had similar feelings getting married at the age of 27, and kept my last name. I wrote more about this in my own comment.
@Kim from Philadelphia, I can relate to this issue in various ways. I chose to keep my unusual surname when I married DH, both because I'm fond of it and because his, which was equally unusual, was a lot harder to spell (especially over the phone). Of course, once DH started developing dementia, I had to spell his surname repeatedly over the phone for him. The best-laid plans...
On the other hand, my #2 sister has been married five times, has now divorced four times and gotten one annulment, and has changed her name *every*single*time*. They must love her at the Florida DMV.
And I'm glad that Kristen has chosen to take back her original name. You go, girl!
Shew, that is a lot of name changes to navigate!
Yes, it was a lot of work! There are so many places to change a name at this point in life. I imagine I will keep finding ones I missed!
@A. Marie, This is late but I had to reply. My one and only brother has married: 1. a Canadian who was gay 2. a Phillipino who was an unmedicated bi-polar who had way more problems than that 3, 3 1/2, 4. a first generation Italian, they got married/divorced, got back together but split up, got back together/divorced, and last but not least 5. the Brit who was going to be deported back to UK the next day for expired Visa/divorced for years but still oddly entangled due to real estate. A wonder that never ceases to amaze. He is retired Air Force, so partial explanation for the United Nations of exes. But what was wrong with a good ol' American girl I have wondered for decades. lol
Thankful for patient-centric doctors.
I was referred to a physiatrist by my PCP. Turns out the doctor recommended is very good but specializes in an aspect that I did not need. We discovered this after the pre-meeting interview with his fellow, Dr M., who did an especially good job of interviewing as to the nature of why I was seeing the doctor. (I learn a great deal about any medical personnel by how well and if they ask questions, if they listen and followup on my answers.)
Of note, while Dr M had to use the computer to both access and input information, EVERY time he had a question or was addressing me, he turned fully around to face me. This may seem like a small thing, but it is the sign of a good physician. A doctor/other medical personnel, need to watch you and see you as you answer questions. It is not just offputting to have someone's back to you for almost an entire appointment, but it can miss out on gathering key information from watching the patient (Read up on this if you don't think so.)
The fellow, Dr M, asked the expected questions but he dug deeper and it was clear he was paying attention to what I was saying and not just specific answers. Rapport was established quickly and easily and one didn't feel like a diagnosis, or a treatment, but a real person. I felt as if he were really trying to figure out what I needed and how he could help.
It became clear that specialist, Doctor M, could not address one of the two health issues for which I was consulting him. Instead of just ending the appointment when the fellow realized this based on my answers, both he and the consulting doctor spent quite a bit of time, unasked, suggesting where and how I could get help for the other problem that they did not cover. They actually spent more time with me on this, including finding referrals for the different medical care I needed, than a recent appointment with a specialist who did cover my health issue!
I made a huge point of 1/Praising the fellow to Dr M and 2/not only saying "Thank you." for their help and assistance but pointing out that their pro-active help and sincere interest in helping even if they themselves could not, was definitely atypical of many medical encounters today.
I followed up with a note to them via My Chart and posted a recommendation online for them in case someone else needed them.
I am thankful for those individuals who realize that being in a wheelchair presents unique challenges and concerns. I use a local service that is supposed to provide cabs with wheelchair ramps that allow you to be rolled into the back of the cab as opposed to having to get out of the chair and walk into the cab. (Something I cannot do. I'm not in a wheelchair for convenience, I cannot walk.) Every time, I first get a driver who either doesn't have the ramp or doesn't know how or doesn't want to use the ramp.
I have to call again (and I am charged a fee for canceling the first because he clearly did not know how to operate the ramp, because he didn't know how to unlock it!) and this time I got a very lovely and careful driver who helped me and my aide.
(You can't always take public transport to some of the locations because it would take way too long and I have another health issue that means I need to get anywhere in under 30 minutes or else I have a major issue.)
It was disappointing to find out that this great doctor and his fellow were not the answer to my problem, but it was encouraging to encounter two individuals who made me feel as if my concerns mattered and tried to help. I have had way too many encounters that really made me feel worse given the lack of interest and unprofessionalism of some doctors.
It seems these days there are only two kinds of medical professionals: Competent and caring and professional and personable. And those who may be technically competent but lack even a modicum of people skills and the ability to even fake a modicum of interest in your health needs.
I am thankful for the cooler weather. I live for the fall, which doesn't last long enough.
Schlepping around in the heat of summer is just too much for me at times.
I am grateful for the male and female bus drivers who area professional and do not give attitude when they have to do the multiple tasks required to onload a person in a wheelchair.
I am grateful that kindness shows up unexpectedly. While on the bus recently, I was chatting with an older woman (Ha, I am an older woman!) . She went to get up and it was clear she was having trouble. Immediately two men, one quite older and one younger, reached over and assisted her. They did this as they quickly saw her predicament. You don't often see that anymore, sadly. I thanked both of them who were surprised because as the older (seriously older) gentleman said: This is what you do.
This is in sharp contrast to most people getting on and off the bus who are either too lazy, bad mannered or entitled, to follow the driver's instructions to "Please allow me to help the person in the wheelchair get off the bus." Or worse, those who verbally make comments about annoying it is for them to have to deal with these "disabled" folks who, as a few have said, "Should just stay home" and out of their way.
When you see others helping others, unasked especially, thank them. They aren't looking for thanks but they should be acknowledged. Because sadly, good manners are no longer the norm.
Personally, I find it very encouraging to witness kindness first hand and also, when I can, to help. (You might be surprised at how initiating even a simple conversation or acknowledging someone's struggle, no matter how small, can be. And even the smallest gesture can make someone feel a lot better. (I am a huge fan of complementing folks on their hair, their clothes, and other things I observe. Generally people just light up (and yes, a few folks just seem shocked and find a complement unwelcome.)
I am thankful for the two wonderful young couple neighbors I had for several years. They are moving out soon and they will be missed. And, they told me, I, too, will be missed.
I live on a floor of four apartments and so far, all of these neighbors have been good folks, even if I was not as close to them as my literal "next" door neighbors. All are well-mannered and polite. That's a blessing. Plus we now have a terrific superintendent and building staffers. (After a horrific superintendent who had to be sued to leave the building!)
Shortly after one of these neighbors joined the Co-op Board (I am a renter, not a shareholder.) , the building finally got a metal, fold-up wheelchair ramp. All we had previously was an old piece of wood (that was falling apart ) that was heavy and splintery and rickety and difficult to use. This in a building that had spent a huge amount of money to redecorate (truly decorative and not functional at all) and could have cared less about ADA rules. (FYI: The ramp was like $100! I would have paid for one myself but there was no way to use/store at same time when coming in or out of the building.)
Funny how it took one neighbor to do what a whole bunch of others could not be bothered to do. I definitely thanked her and acknowledged her contribution to my well-being.
I love that you changed your name back!
@Anna, I love it too!
@Sophie in Denmark, @Anna, me too!
@Anna, frankly I think no one should change his/her name. Especially in states that are all in for making it harder to vote.
@Selena, I changed my name when I got married nearly 36 years ago, after much internal debate. I don’t regret it - we are happily married - but I would advise any young woman now to keep her name. This most definitely includes my daughter.
Thankful for patient-centric doctors.
I was referred to a physiatrist by my PCP. Turns out the doctor recommended is very good but specializes in an aspect that I did not need. We discovered this after the pre-meeting interview with his fellow, Dr M., who did an especially good job of interviewing as to the nature of why I was seeing the doctor. (I learn a great deal about any medical personnel by how well and if they ask questions, if they listen and followup on my answers.)
Of note, while Dr M had to use the computer to both access and input information, EVERY time he had a question or was addressing me, he turned fully around to face me. This may seem like a small thing, but it is the sign of a good physician. A doctor/other medical personnel, need to watch you and see you as you answer questions. It is not just offputting to have someone’s back to you for almost an entire appointment, but it can miss out on gathering key information from watching the patient (Read up on this if you don’t think so.)
The fellow, Dr M, asked the expected questions but he dug deeper and it was clear he was paying attention to what I was saying and not just specific answers. Rapport was established quickly and easily and one didn’t feel like a diagnosis, or a treatment, but a real person. I felt as if he were really trying to figure out what I needed and how he could help.
It became clear that specialist, Doctor M, could not address one of the two health issues for which I was consulting him. Instead of just ending the appointment when the fellow realized this based on my answers, both he and the consulting doctor spent quite a bit of time, unasked, suggesting where and how I could get help for the other problem that they did not cover. They actually spent more time with me on this, including finding referrals for the different medical care I needed, than a recent appointment with a specialist who did cover my health issue!
I made a huge point of 1/Praising the fellow to Dr M and 2/not only saying “Thank you.” for their help and assistance but pointing out that their pro-active help and sincere interest in helping even if they themselves could not, was definitely atypical of many medical encounters today.
I followed up with a note to them via My Chart and posted a recommendation online for them in case someone else needed them.
I am thankful for those individuals who realize that being in a wheelchair presents unique challenges and concerns. I use a local service that is supposed to provide cabs with wheelchair ramps that allow you to be rolled into the back of the cab as opposed to having to get out of the chair and walk into the cab. (Something I cannot do. I’m not in a wheelchair for convenience, I cannot walk.) Every time, I first get a driver who either doesn’t have the ramp or doesn’t know how or doesn’t want to use the ramp.
I have to call again (and I am charged a fee for canceling the first because he clearly did not know how to operate the ramp, because he didn’t know how to unlock it!) and this time I got a very lovely and careful driver who helped me and my aide.
(You can’t always take public transport to some of the locations because it would take way too long and I have another health issue that means I need to get anywhere in under 30 minutes or else I have a major issue.)
It was disappointing to find out that this great doctor and his fellow were not the answer to my problem, but it was encouraging to encounter two individuals who made me feel as if my concerns mattered and tried to help. I have had way too many encounters that really made me feel worse given the lack of interest and unprofessionalism of some doctors.
It seems these days there are only two kinds of medical professionals: Competent and caring and professional and personable. And those who may be technically competent but lack even a modicum of people skills and the ability to even fake a modicum of interest in your health needs.
I am thankful for the cooler weather. I live for the fall, which doesn’t last long enough.
Schlepping around in the heat of summer is just too much for me at times.
I am grateful for the male and female bus drivers who area professional and do not give attitude when they have to do the multiple tasks required to onload a person in a wheelchair.
I am grateful that kindness shows up unexpectedly. While on the bus recently, I was chatting with an older woman (Ha, I am an older woman!) . She went to get up and it was clear she was having trouble. Immediately two men, one quite older and one younger, reached over and assisted her. They did this as they quickly saw her predicament. You don’t often see that anymore, sadly. I thanked both of them who were surprised because as the older (seriously older) gentleman said: This is what you do.
This is in sharp contrast to most people getting on and off the bus who are either too lazy, bad mannered or entitled, to follow the driver’s instructions to “Please allow me to help the person in the wheelchair get off the bus.” Or worse, those who verbally make comments about annoying it is for them to have to deal with these “disabled” folks who, as a few have said, “Should just stay home” and out of their way.
When you see others helping others, unasked especially, thank them. They aren’t looking for thanks but they should be acknowledged. Because sadly, good manners are no longer the norm.
Personally, I find it very encouraging to witness kindness first hand and also, when I can, to help. (You might be surprised at how initiating even a simple conversation or acknowledging someone’s struggle, no matter how small, can be. And even the smallest gesture can make someone feel a lot better. (I am a huge fan of complementing folks on their hair, their clothes, and other things I observe. Generally people just light up (and yes, a few folks just seem shocked and find a complement unwelcome.)
I am thankful for the two wonderful young couple neighbors I had for several years. They are moving out soon and they will be missed. And, they told me, I, too, will be missed.
I live on a floor of four apartments and so far, all of these neighbors have been good folks, even if I was not as close to them as my literal “next” door neighbors. All are well-mannered and polite. That’s a blessing. Plus we now have a terrific superintendent and building staffers. (After a horrific superintendent who had to be sued to leave the building!)
Shortly after one of these neighbors joined the Co-op Board (I am a renter, not a shareholder.) , the building finally got a metal, fold-up wheelchair ramp. All we had previously was an old piece of wood (that was falling apart ) that was heavy and splintery and rickety and difficult to use. This in a building that had spent a huge amount of money to redecorate (truly decorative and not functional at all) and could have cared less about ADA rules. (FYI: The ramp was like $100! I would have paid for one myself but there was no way to use/store at same time when coming in or out of the building.)
Funny how it took one neighbor to do what a whole bunch of others could not be bothered to do. I definitely thanked her and acknowledged her contribution to my well-being.
@Irena,
It's so good to hear about medical professionals that go out of their way to help & make you seen as a person, not the next problem. I agree with your description of 2 types of medical professionals as I also have not had much experience with being the whole package.
One of my previous jobs was a driver for handicapped people with a van that had the built in wheelchair ramp. I loved that job. I rarely had complaints & plenty of repeated requests for me as a driver. It is a bit of work to do but very uncommon to see regularly (maybe except big cities which is not where I live). The company I worked for (& other similar services companies that specialize in handicap transportation) are trained before doing job & job shadowed first days. I wish this service was more widely available for people. I'm glad you have a bus driver who is happy doing his job for you.
On a lighter note, of thankfulness:
All those who post content with funny animal videos. Whether dog or cat or goat or elephant…or other. They make me smile and remind me that animals are a blessing and provide a lot more than they are sometimes given by us humans. (For all those who treat their animals well, we know there are others who do not.)
I am thankful for being able to enjoy, vicariously, various vloggers living around the world and learning about their cultures. And yes, it’s fun to imagine you are living in some of those places and even some of those homes! These individuals are so personable that you really do feel as if you are visiting friends each week.
I am thankful for Zoom as it enables so much access to so many things. And people. And live sharing on YouTube for all sorts of free information and guidance.
I am also thankful for the many bloggers and vloggers who take the time and energy to post what is often controversial but also educational and relevant about what is going on in the world today. There is one particular blog, Politics Girl, that is a never-ending source of info about what is going on around the country in terms of local, regional info.
I won’t say more but I will say, it is encouraging when we see that we are not alone in our questioning of a lot of behavior in this current world. And those who educate us on how and when to take action as opposed to just lamenting our situations.
Hope, a very wise woman once shared, IS ACTION. It is not just being optimistic or being positive polly, but taking action to seek the change you want.
This very small thing has set off a lot in me personally (I got very involved with a nonprofit group advocating for needed medical and health concerns for the men and women in our state) and it continues to encourage me to focus on what I can do in all situations.
Two of my favorite frugal bloggers, together!
Things I'm thankful for:
-Friends, close by to check on DS18 as he adjusts to college, GF breakup & some of the natural hard parts of moving away from home.
-That we planned to go to family weekend. It would have been incredibly expensive to do last minute, and the timing works out really well to check on DS18.
-For homemade lattes on tired mornings
-DH, who is always ready to listen and be a support system.
-We got rain yesterday, for the first time in months, AFAIK, which we definitely need
@Hawaii Planner,
Oh, how terrible that he and GF broke up during the first weeks of college! It xan be hard enough to adjust to school without the complications of heartbreak. Glad you have friends nearby to check on him.
( My daughter's boyfriend dumped her after the first week away at school. Luckily, her siblings took time to go see her and help her adjust.)
As a professor, I also like Canvas more than Blackboard (which seems to be the consensus from professors that I know). Canvas is a bit tedious for math questions though.
Enjoy your time in Oregon with Katy!
This week I am thankful:
- for a visit with family. DH's great niece was in town for a visit, and my family got to have dinner with her and her boyfriend
- for the lovely weather we've been having. Tomorrow goes back to normally high temperatures, but I have really enjoyed being able to spend time outdoors without baking in August heat
- that I continue to enjoy working part time and having every Friday off
- for coworker's wife who shared her sourdough starter with us
- for DH who is always there to support me, even when I'm seriously grumpy after a hard day
Thank goodness for that kind professor!
1. My biggest thankful this week is finally getting a bank issue sorted which dragged on for weeks. It involved a trip to the citizen service on the other side of town, but it's finally fixed!
2. I went to see the new Conjuring film with some friends and it was so much fun! I jumped a few times but it was an enjoyable kind of scary!
3. I did the parkrun on Saturday and as well as managing to run without walking breaks, I got a faster time than previously! I was very pleasantly surprised because I didn't go running at all over summer. I also had a swim at the beach afterwards.
4. This is incredibly dorky, but Alexis Bledel and Lauren Graham are going to present at the Emmys and I'm looking forward to seeing the Gilmore Girls together again!
5. I finally got around to cleaning my fridge, which needed doing for a long time. I haate cleaning the fridge but it's good to be done! I'm also thankful that I have a cooler to store food in whilst cleaning.
I am having trouble filling my heart with thankfulness this morning. September 11th is always a difficult day for me, and for other reasons, this one is harder than most. Therefore, I am not going to say that I'm grateful for coffee or that the sky is blue.
Today, I wish each of you peace. If you pray, please pray that love and peace will prevail. If you are not religious, please visualize a world without hate and without violence. Send this positive energy out in to the Universe and be an instrument of peace.
@Bee,
sending you virtual hugs!! My youngest/teen school did a trip to Washington DC on middle school just before Covid19. We stopped in PA 9/11 memorial (which was just a mile down road from daughters college (at time) on way back to Michigan. Every adult was emotional. The personal articles from passengers, the recordings of passengers voices, the planes debris, the photographs. Not one dry eye. Sitting here thinking about it with tears in my eyes.
Thank God for the HEROS who took action during a time of chaos.
@Bee, amen. I'll always be grateful that the nuns in the Catholic school where I spent two years made us memorize the Prayer of St. Francis: "Lord, make me an instrument of thy peace..."
@Bee, yes, dear one! Prayers for peace … always!
A hike with a friend on a gorgeous weather day, hearing from my k8ds regularly, hanging out with my husband, laughing at my cats. Simple joys for which I am grateful.
You.
I have today off to go to two long distance appointments so I’m later with this comment but:
1. I am very thankful that DS2 and her BFF had a fabulous time in Iceland for their birthday celebrations and are safely back home.
2. I am very thankful for the unusual cooler weather we are having this week. It still reaches 90 in the day but the nights are in the sixties and the humidity is lower.
3. Thankful that my sister will accompany me today so I don’t have a long boring drive alone.
4, I’m thankful to see some tiny sprouts in my garden. Maybe it will do well this fall, unlike my summer garden.
5. Five and a half months till I retire!
Also, remembering this day of 9/11 is a special part of my day today.
Thank God your professor was kind & understanding of your brain lapse moment.
Thankful that the 6 folded over Kleenex that I put in my shorts pocket & FORGOT ABOUT TO TAKE OUT OF MY POCKET BEFORE THROWING IN THE WASHER stayed there & DID NOT MAKE A MESS ALL OVER THE WHOLE LAUNDRY. I remembered about half way through wash cycle the Kleenex. I was so relieved when washer done & no mess!
Thankful teen vehicle seems to be doing good since deer damage repairs. Teen told me yesterday that even getting better gas mileage than before (teen thinks because changed air filter is reason). 🙂
Thankful teen doing well in all college classes. Teen seems to be navigating new/different platform better than first week & I don't hear any complaints. Teen said likes new laptop much better than Chromebooks had in high school. I like that the laptop folds completely in half (safely built to do) & looks like big 16" tablet for reading.
Thankful for rescue dogs--Always.
Thankful my neighbor's dad who fell last Thursday (& was found Friday & taken to hospital) did not suffer long after him falling & hitting his head. Unfortunately at 94 (almost 95) his body was not capable of dealing with his injuries & he passed comfortably on Monday.
Thankful that I'm feeling somewhat better. I was able to more yesterday than Tuesday & coughed less. I'm still tired, but not as easily. It was nice being outside in 80* & sunshine yesterday.
Thankful for Kristen & her blog where we can learn & share with each other.
Have a great weekend.
@Regina, The worst laundry mess ever for me -- crayons in the dryer. They melted in the heat.
Kristen, I am so glad that your professor was understanding about the mixup with your initials. I know you did a fine job on your paper, regardless. About 8-9 years ago (?), I came across your married last name in a link to a finance article/podcast that you shared. When I heard that last name I did a double take because it struck me that the name did not at all match with up you - one of the nicest people on the internet. (Am I remembering correctly?)
Many years ago when I got married, I did not change my last name. I know I'm in the minority, but I feel very strongly about a woman's decision to keep her last name. For one thing, I was finally coming into myself as a young adult, and couldn't see having to take on another person's identity. I've never my doubted my choice. What I have learned over the years is that no matter what our last name is, what's important is that we find peace within ourselves.
This week I am very thankful for the many kindnesses that family and friends have shown us in the time before, during, and now after my father's wake and funeral.
@Price Chopper Shopper, I totally agree. If I get married I'm keeping my name - it's who I am. I also get really riled up about children traditionally taking the man's surname when it's the woman who carries and births them!
@Sophie in Denmark, you and I are of like minds 😉
@Price Chopper Shopper, I'm so sorry about your father's death.
@A. Marie, thank you so much.
I am just so thankful for you and Katy! I have been reading your blogs for years,most of the bloggers I have followed no longer blog, but I can count on you two!!THANKFUL FOR BOTH OF YOU!!
Thankful that YOU get to spend great time at that conference,and with your buddy Katy..I am sure she has tips and support to share, as a fellow “NURSE!! “ too!!
I am VERY VERY thankful that my Medicare Advantage program has a $3000 dental benefit! I have an appt.today and I ALWAYS need work done. Next year the plan may not be so generous, as government cuts to health care are affecting the plans.But for now,I have a benefit to use!!!!
LAST year my benefit allowed me to purchase a fitness tracker,,which included Apple watches so now I have one,great for fall protection as well as all kinds of fitness support!
So glad you and Katy are getting time to spend together, lookin forward to hearing all about the Fincon!
This week, I'm really thankful my son got a position he had applied for, as it's a great step forward in his career and shows his dedication and hard work paying off.
Thankful that one of my teens is spending more time with friends, as there was a period I was worried about him being too reclusive.
I am thankful for the rain and cooler temps, as the nature around us has been really dry and my plants have been suffering; also hoping it will ease some ragweed allergies.
Thankful my husband cleared the gutters before a big downpour, they really needed it!
I admit after the horrible news from this week (it just feels like that's all I hear now) I admit it sometimes is hard to be thankful.
For me I'm thankful that I get to go out with my wife tonight.
Thankful for my wonderful wife and daughter.
Thankful that no matter what, God is always good.
@Battra92,
Thank you for these simple sentiments.
No matter what. All the time.
Hooray for an understanding professor! And all your work and school good things this week, but what a headache and huge amount of stress it would have been for you to have to start all over on the 'correct' assignment.
This week, I'm thankful
1. That all my kids and grandkids were here last Saturday for a potluck type soup supper and to discuss and plan a whole-family vacation for next summer. We haven't done an entire family vacation since my oldest graduated high school in 2007, and totaling 19 people now with DH, me, kids and spouses and grandkids it's really exciting to think it might be possible to do a massive vacation. We're hoping that by setting a date and destination now we can secure lodging for that big of a crew and that everyone can get approved vacation time.
2. Free peaches from a business associate. She has a white peach tree at home and has more peaches this year than she can deal with. I'd never tried white peaches, but I love 'regular' peaches so I happily accepted the dozen she offered me.
3. Sunny and warmer weather this week.
I am thankful the professor was very understanding regarding the faux pas with the initials. Esp since the heart of the assignment was completed.
Yesterday was a hard day. I am thankful that most people realize it as such and as a gauge for the sad world we live in. And that, in the end Righteousness will prevail.
Thankful to get through Monday and Tuesday nights of work. I only missed one day of work d/t vacation last week, but there waiting for me was the job only I seem to be able to do. Plus there were two new aides who "seemed" to know more than I do. While I appreciate their care, the lack of humility and respect is irritating. (Thanks all for listening.)
I am thankful for the weekend with my family. By virtue of the fact that Lil Bro travels and stays with me, we spend one/one that is always a blessing. I see my other Bro and his SO and adult kids, but they seem generally confined to their circle. We did plan the fall wiener roast and Thanksgiving time to suit all of our schedules.
I am thankful I had sense enough to pack and wear just warm enough clothes for the rodeo evenings and Saturday morning parade. Aluminum bleachers just have this ability to freeze you up through the middle. Anyway, the Rodeo was entertaining all three nights.
I am thankful my vehicle got good mileage and is pleasant to drive. I am still in a traveling mood and may go see my cousin at a mule festival tomorrow night. The operative word being "may."
This week I am thankful . . .
-for how well the business seems to be going. We've had issues since COVID that were made worse by my cancer diagnosis in 2023 and subsequent treatment. My doctors think I am doing well, health-wise, and this year a new hire and a stream of new business seems to have changed our fortunes. Maybe? I'm pretty shell-shocked, so I will believe it when I see it. But I revel in the hope that things might turn out alright.
-for the thoughtful reviewers who commented on my manuscript. I really, really want to write a good book above all else, and the way I will get there is by listening to these senior scholars' ideas for improvement. It is going to be so much work, but, for me, an important part of the process is having others' tell me they see a lot of value in my work.
-for access to health insurance. Last night my husband and I reviewed the two options offered by my university and strategized which would be best for 2026. It is such a complicated question and our family's second biggest annual expense (after our mortgage). (We are unfortunately in a season in life where the out of pocket max matters as much as the monthly premium.) But I have checked rates on the private market, and I know that as expensive as medical care is for us with employer-sponsored insurance, it would be even more expensive if we purchased it on our own.
-for my walks this early fall. I'm not teaching until the second quarter, which means I am free to write and research until mid-October. I've been taking daily walks, often through the urban parks of my city. It has been delightful.
Two of my favorite bloggers together!!!!
I'm thankful for finding a new vehicle fairly quickly. We've been planning since spring to get a new one after our house sold and we found what we were looking for in less than a month. We're going to sign the papers and bring it home tonight.
I'm thankful that it's coming in just under the amount we have set aside for a new vehicle.
I'm thankful for the many details my husband has been taking care of to make this happen.
I'm thankful for today's sunshine.
I'm thankful for my kids.
So fun to have you here!!!!
Karma is a b**ch with impeccable timing.
*Finally* hired a couple of people for my work team (still short one person out of my five person team). It was starting to get close to me saying too bad, so sad, I'm retiring. Downside is really?, manager doesn't know what access our team needs?
Dad is still kicking - down to one of four of his graduating class still living.
Continuing to put away money due to no debt (except what we charge each month in which the full amount is auto debited each month).
Finding a hotel a short jaunt from kiddos house.
Not so much thankful but addendums to IRA account showing how my kiddos will be screwed has motivated me to up my drain my traditional IRA game. I should have enough time to withdraw paying minimum taxes. While I don't think millions should be passed on to IRA heirs, I do think X amount per IRA holder/beneficiary should be exempt from being withdrawn. For a lot of people, inherited IRAs will be their retirement savings outside of social security.
Very cool for you and Katie! The only two blogs I still read religiously.
My 5 tankful's:
- Hubby got spared in the first round of cuts at work, this week!!!
- That my daughter got an appointment with a specialist 5 months sooner than anticipated because of a cancellation
- To have a no-fees credit card that collects points that I can exchange for free groceries (card paid in full each month, so no accrued interest). I must save at least 40$ monthly with those points.
- For a cheap outing in the form of community improvisation show. 2 hours of laughter for 5$? Yes please!
- For books. Always and forever. And my public library, of course 🙂
Just had surgery so can’t type much. Prayers for a swift recovery are welcome! Spent about 160 on food at Aldi. Ate our usual fare of salads, lots of veggies, fish and chicken as proteins, and rice or sourdough bread as carbs. Will hopefully put more detail next week. Have a wonderful weekend, everyone!