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College class questions + finding a balance with “natural” living

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Kristen,

Thanks for blogging!   I have an 8th grader next year that’s been homeschooled except for k-2, and am trying not to mess up his schooling/his future so any input would be great.

How did you cover the requirements for your kids to take college classes? What age did they start taking classes? What age is Joshua now? How do you decide what college classes to put them in? Thanks!

Carina

Hi Carina!

I imagine this varies some from college to college, but at our community college, kids have to take a placement test, or they can use their SAT scores to get placed in classes.

In order to get the 50% off high school student discount, we have to get some paperwork from our county homeschool office, but that’s pretty easy to do.

Joshua started taking classes his junior year of high school, and that’s what Lisey will start doing this fall as well (her junior year starts this fall). She’s 16, and that’s how old Joshua was as well.

A lanky teen wearing a brown backpack.

As far as what classes to take, we’ve just been focusing on General Ed. requirements and also keeping an eye on what high school credits they still need.

For example, Joshua needed two more English credits and one more math credit for high school, so we made sure that he signed up for classes that covered those needs.

Of course, for the electives, we’re taking into consideration what our kids’ interests are.   Lisey plans to take some Spanish classes, while Joshua took a music class and is doing extra English/Lit. classes.

To set your mind at ease, you could always talk to someone at your local college to ask specific questions about the intake process for homeschooled students.   Then you’ll know for sure what you’ll be dealing with.

Something I have been wondering, and may have even asked before, is how you balance the cultural ‘thing’ of being ‘all-natural’ and being secure and content with the products you use. Maybe a shorter way to phrase it, is how do you overcome the pressure of doing the ‘best’, or live without fear of the ‘bad’ stuff.

baking soda and castile soap

I know you cover this somewhat in the FAQ tab when it comes to diet, but I’m thinking conventional laundry detergent, Suave shampoo, etc. More and more there is a huge push to go toward natural stuff that costs a TON. My experience has been that it doesn’t make much of a difference and really just causes fear of anything we consider synthetic or less-than-natural.

What are your thoughts on that?

-Brittiny

I’m a middle-of-the-road person when it comes to eating a clean diet (I try to mostly feed my family healthy food, but I don’t buy 100% organic food, we do eat some sugar, etc.) and I’m the same way when it comes to household products and toiletries.

I’ve tried natural laundry detergent 123102948 times and it’s been a total failure, so I just gave up on that altogether.   Conventional detergent for me, thanks.

An orange bottle of Aldi laundry soap.

On the other hand, I don’t clean with bleach, except on rare and desperate occasions.   I frequently use plain old water and a wet washcloth to wipe down counters and floors.   I don’t buy harsh toilet cleaners, I use the self-clean feature on my oven instead of the sprays*, and I use natural concentrate to make spray cleaners.

*to be honest, I rarely clean my oven. (!) But when I do, I wipe up spills with water, or I use the self-clean feature.   Mostly my oven is just kind of messy, though.

While I do use conventional shampoo and conditioner, I’m pretty picky about stuff that stays on our skin.   Like, for lip balm and skin moisturizer, I prefer to use coconut-oil based versions, like what Third Day Naturals sells.

And I really love this ThinkSport sunscreen, which smells like fruit loops and actually works.

So, I’m kind of all over the place, which is probably not super helpful! I wish I had a more organized approach to offer you, but all I can say is that you should do the best you can to avoid the things that seem the most harmful for you and your family, and then not stress about the rest.

We live in a broken world where nothing is going to be perfect, and if you make peace with that, you can have a freedom to stress a little less about trying to make things perfect for your family.

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Sherrie

Saturday 8th of July 2017

I have found that "natural" detergent, dish soap and laundry detergent doesn't work. I use Gain which is the only thing that seems to work. I use Dawn, tried Norway dish soap and laundry detergent didn't like either one. They were so expensive. I have Norwex dish rags and dish towels and I'm being told they won't work if I don't use Norwex detergent. HELP, any ideas? Just joined this group and I am looking for help! I waste tons of money of stuff that doesn't work or use the stuff like Gain, I know that's not good for skin but it works great. Thank you, I look forward to learning a lot from this group

AnniRSA

Thursday 29th of June 2017

On the natural living issue:

I have recently explored the options of making my own lotions, and its easy peasy!

Its lovely, because they make frugal gifts and you can customise the smells with essential oils

Its just as easy to make other body stuff too.

Take a look at Ela Gale on Youtube :)

Carina

Tuesday 27th of June 2017

Thanks for answering my homeschool question! It helped a lot. I kept reading how you have to make sure credits transfer etc., how to make sure your child takes the right classes, so I was obviously overwhelmed. Your answer of General Ed classes keeps it nice and simple. I know it can vary, but I didn't realize it could be as simple as taking a test when taking college classes in high school. Somehow I thought I'd have to go through our local public school. I forgot all about our county homeschool office. Thanks again! I don't know if we will homeschool for high school, but reading how you homeschool has made it very appealing.

Ruth

Wednesday 28th of June 2017

Carina, just call the admissions office of the very best school you would consider for your child and see what they require for admissions and work from there. I was set on a top school for mine so I made sure she had everything they wanted to see and beyond. By following those requirements, my oldest did get into the school of her choice (they do not offer merit aid but she did get full scholarships at two other schools) and my younger two received full merit scholarships.

Kristen

Tuesday 27th of June 2017

Yes, definitely check with your homeschool office. I'm certain they'll be able to answer any questions that you have!

I'm glad it feels a little less overwhelming now. :)

Linda Sand

Tuesday 27th of June 2017

People who live full time in RVs tend to be environmentally conscious. Blue Dawn is the preferred dish soap. It works even in cold water yet does a good job of removing grease. As for body care I wet a wash cloth and scrub the important bits every day which lets me shower just once a week; after all, water is the universal solvent for most everything except grease. My bathroom is a wet bath which means the whole room gets wet when you shower so I dry everything with a microfiber cloth and never have to clean beyond that. The forty gallons of fresh water in my RV's tank lasts four weeks being used for cooking as well as cleaning.

Denise

Tuesday 27th of June 2017

I too, walk the middle of the line on so many things. When I discovered your blog years ago it was so refreshing to find someone as articulate as you. Thank you for sharing your journey with your readers. Having another mom who homeschools, cooks from scratch and just does the best she can is a sanity saver for me.

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