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Monday Q&A | Using up Jalapenos, Family Worship Time, and Homeschool Curriculum Choices

Every Monday, I answer a few of the questions that my readers send me. If you have a question you’d like me to answer in a future Q&A post, just leave me a comment here or email me (thefrugalgirl [at] gmail [dot] com) and put Q&A in the subject line. I look forward to hearing from you!

I planted several jalapeno peppers for the first time this year. I am now getting a lot of peppers. I have made salsa and chopped some up and froze them for future use this winter. Do you have any other ideas? I try not to waste food.

-Jill

I’d suggest drying them. I know you that you can do this in a low oven, so you don’t necessarily need a dehydrator. I even think my parents might have dried them on screens in the hot summer attic, with a fan blowing.

Once they’re dried, you can use them like you would crushed red pepper from the spice section.

Also, do you like poppers? A batch of two of those could use up a lot of jalapenos.

I was wondering if you could give me some advice on how to go about starting family worship time with my husband? We’ve only been married a year, but neither of us come from families where anything more than meal time and bedtime prayers occurred. We’ve been working on building our relationship with each other and our relationships with God, but we haven’t figured out how to combine them yet. Can you make any suggestions? We’d really like to establish a daily (or at least weekly) “God time” before we start having kids.

Caroline

I think it’s great that you guys want to start a habit that will help you grow in your faith together…good for you.

Practically speaking, I find that it’s always easiest to do something like this at a time in your day that’s predictable. For instance, doing it right after breakfast, right before or after dinner, or right before bed might help you to be consistent, as long as those times in your day are predictable (obviously the appropriate time for you may be different, but just pick a time that tends to be the same every day.)

Also, don’t let yourselves get totally derailed every time something comes up. Sometimes we don’t manage to get family worship done with the kids due to an appointment or travel, but that’s no reason to throw the towel in. We just try to get back in the groove of things as soon as possible.

I’m not sure if you’re looking for suggestions about what to include in your time, but do know it doesn’t have to be fancy. You can pray together, read the Bible together, or read a Christian book together, for example.

I’ve been homeschooling my oldest daughter for preschool since she was 2, and this year we are informally working on kindergarten materials even though she’s only 4.5. I’ve been using inexpensive activities, work books, and lots of free Internet resources to gather curricula – as well as utilizing our public library system.

I’ve recently made the mistake of looking on homeschooling blogs via pinterest for ideas and suddenly, I’m feeling super inadequate. I am having a very hard time curbing the feeling that if I don’t have an unlimited homeschooling budget, I’m somehow harming my kids with a less-than-noteworthy education experience. I’ve tried reminding myself that my methods seem to be working and my daughter is thriving and excelling this way, but there is a nagging voice in my head saying my efforts won’t be good enough until I have a whole classroom in my home or brand new textbooks or a four-year-old entering college.

I guess my questions are as follows: How do you deal with the temptation to overspend on homeschooling supplies? Have you ever felt inadequate with homeschooling because of the way other people do it? Do you ever worry that approaching homeschooling frugally is hindering the learning experience?

Thanks,
Amy

Good question…this is a challenge that homeschoolers back in the 80s didn’t really face because back then, there were so few curriculum choices.

Now the pendulum has swung the other way, and there’s a plethora of options for each subject and grade. It’s completely overwhelming.

Here are a few things that have helped me navigate these confusing waters.

  • I remind myself that no school (public, private, or home) uses THE perfect curriculum for every subject for every kid.

Sometimes, I think we homeschoolers are comparing ourselves to something that doesn’t exist. Even the best private school in your area might not be using the curriculum that’s perfect for your child, or that’s the latest and greatest. So, we shouldn’t feel like we somehow have to do this whole thing perfectly or we’ll screw up our kids.

  • I remind myself that there is more than one good curriculum available.

For instance, when you’re shopping for handwriting books, it’s not like there’s one awesome book, and 9,872 horrible ones. Probably a good percentage of the handwriting books out there would do just fine, so don’t stress about it if you can’t afford the most expensive one.

(speaking of handwriting, I like Handwriting Without Tears, and it’s actually quite affordable.)

  • I remind myself that parental interaction is the most consistent key to educational success.*

Whether the schooling method is public, private, or home, studies have shown that parental involvement is the most important factor in a child’s educational success. Good curriculum is helpful, yes, but it’s not the make-or-break factor…YOU are.

If you’re involved in what your child is learning, if you can discuss it with her at the dinner table and tie it into things you experience in everyday life, you’re in a great spot to help her learn, even if your curriculum isn’t the most super fabulous expensive thing out there.

*I read this in a book on education whose title utterly escapes me at the moment. The author’s point was that a child can excel in many types of educational settings as long as the parents are involved and engaged.

  • I ask other homeschool moms (esp. those with kids older than mine) for recommendations.

In my experience, homeschoolers tend to be a pretty frugal bunch (a lot are one-income families with a fairly large number of children), so other moms are a great resource. They know what works and what doesn’t, what’s worth spending money on and what’s not.

And, if you’re fortunate, older homeschooling families might be able to give you some hand-me-down materials.

Lastly, if you need advice on obtaining curriculum cheaply, check out my post about how I save on school supplies.)

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Readers, feel free to share your thoughts on these questions! Jill especially is hoping that you’ll be able to suggest ways to use up her jalapenos.

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Susan

Friday 28th of September 2012

I have dried jalapenos the laisse faire way- tie the stems into a bunch, hang them up and let them ripen and dehydrate on their own. Pull them off the string, add to soup or chili, or grind them up for crushed red peppers. Also, is the book you are thinking of Guerilla Learning? great ideas in it about making the best of education, whether at home, at public school, or private. It has hugely influenced how I am teaching my kids.

Kristen

Friday 28th of September 2012

I remembered the title...it's called Upgrade!

Bethany

Friday 28th of September 2012

I felt the need to encourage you, Amy, in your efforts to educate your child. I am not a home school parent, my little guy is not quite 5 months:) However, I am a college graduate with a dual degree and a grad school graduate with 2 certifications as well. I took heavy loads and maintained a high GPA throughout. I am not saying this to brag about myself, it was hard work and took focus and desire and God! But it also took a solid foundation, which was put into place by my parents. I am bragging about my mom mainly, who at the ripe age of 23 without a high school diploma decided to home school my older brother and in turn me as well. This was before there were so many home school curriculum choices, it was the early 80's after all. And yet she succeeded, my dad worked two jobs to support our family so that my mom could home school my brother and I. We didn't "play" school, we didn't have excess income for extras, we had the basics and we thrived. I ended up attending public high school my 11th and 12th grade years (much to my dad's chagrin, he wanted me to go to the community college). My mom was very sick and could not continue to teach me and take care of herself too. I enjoyed my time in high school, I was annoyed at having to ask to use the restroom and they did not give me a diploma (times have changed!). However, it was not difficult, I was actually beyond most of the material covered during those two years due to my homeschool education. I obtained my GED, attended undergrad, worked a few years and then attended grad school while continuing to work in my career field of choice. I say this to encourage you, setting a foundation for love of learning and family relationship is so much more important then the next best home school tool. Think about those in the 1700, 1800, and even early 1900's who had the basic tools for education, they invented so many things that we use today. The Constitution was written by men who were educated without frills. Regardless of how you chose to educate your child (home, private, or public school), your involvement and relationship is key.

Bonnie

Friday 28th of September 2012

Jalapenos! I dice them and freeze them in stock in ice cube trays. Then you can pop them into anything! You could try drying them and getting crafty, too! There are lots of ways to use died peppers as decorations - especially if you are giving away canning as a gift. They would look cute with raffia around the rim of the can!

Vicki Groves

Wednesday 26th of September 2012

Jalapeno hummus is fantastic, easy to make and is really, really good on meat and cheese sandwiches instead of mayo. :)

Shawna

Tuesday 25th of September 2012

Jill... I haven't tried to make them myself but a friend of mine let me try her candied jalapeños. Oh my!!! They were wonderful on burgers and hot dogs. From what I gathered u just use vinager and sugar. I Plan to try it with some of my mom's jalapeños!!

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